i fear love

Thank you both. I have taking tutorials on self worth and confidence, am I am conflicted because the more I learn to be myself and love myself, the more I think I might be making a mistake in being with him; I feel like there is someone else out there for him. I feel like I deserve a different type of relationship. One that isn't held to certain standards.

During intercourse she became dry so I used my saliva to wet her. I feel so stupid but yet I still love her. Well after we finished I went to pull off the condom im not sure if it was broke I mean it looked intact because It was kinda hard to come off so I guess it was intact. Also while I was takin off the condom it grazed the tip of penis. I would like to know do I need testing? Also I dnt know if her being dry could have caused an small abrasion on my the shaft of my penis.

Be honest with yourself about your depression first. Of course you deserve to love and be loved. If you're in therapy you might talk about the fear of being open and work on knowing when you feel ready to be in a relationship. You might decide you're not up to it yet and want to be sure of yourself. When you do feel you connect with someone it's best to be honest. If you hide that side of you it will risk ruining the relationship because it will show itself eventually.

hi,this is parijat.i'll get marraied on feb 2013.always i have an fear that my hubby can be dead by heart attack or accident..i can't sleep at night...

Im 17 weeks pregnant and I have this terrible fear about my baby dying inside me. I literally have Night mares about it. Does anyone else have this problem? What do you do to ease your nerves?

37 weeks and two day..and I have this awful fear nothings gonna go right. Why do I have this fear? Why can't I be confident that everything is gonna go smoothly with the mama life. :/ new mama over here, and I'm kinda freaking out....

I got all these negative feelings towards him which made me have anxiety attacks, iv been throwing up and been on the toilet. I now feel so depressed. Even though i get these negative feelings I also got really strong feelings towards him, whereby i absolutely adore him. I never stop thinking about it I even dream about him behaving like my ex boyfriend, who was abusive in many ways. My boyfriend is the sweetest guy I have ever met and i suppose im not used to it.

Please someone tell me something, he is more confused everyday. I'm going crazy watching my love die and to make it worse he is losing his mind. If I didn't have my kids I would be going with him. I can't breath when I think of losing him.

Share your doctor stories too Reading all of your posts for months now I just become more and more convinced that I love my doctor. She is kind of fast and I don't know how big my baby is but she makes me feel super secure. I'm so glad I switched doctors at six months. I love my doctor. I'm due on Friday and for the past month every Thursday is my doc appt.

Wow. Im getting married the same day as you :-). Iv just had to have my dress let out cuz of my bump :). Oh I have the same fear aswel, but we have been together 6years and I couldn't live with out him. Don't get married if you don't deep down want to. Good luck.

I love to go to theme parks and what not. I'm going to be a first time mommy and im 7 weeks 5 days. Is it harmful to go on rides.... or certain kind of rides?

I'm 19 weeks almost 20 and I continue to get all kinds of negative thought. What if I lose my baby? How come I'm not feeling him move a lot? What if something happens wrong? Just all kinds of thought. I have major fear of losing him and I honestly don't know why. Has any other moms felt this way? What helped get your mind off of it.

Okay. I have never done this before. Hi I am a married mother of two. My husband and I have Ben together for 6 years and I love him dearly. He is in the army. And my first and only love. I have always coped very well when he was gone. But in December of 2011 my grandmother passed and I was very close to her. She raised me on her own. After she passed I lost control and started popping pills and drinking very Heavly. I went to a weed party with a bunch of my old high school friends.

I badly want to open up here but I have so much fear around doing so. Can anyone offer me idea's on how to move beyond this fear? Thank you.

Fear alone scrambles my brain but I can get tougher!! Some of the things I have made it through in my life were really thorney but I fought back and I survived.Yes if nothing else I can represent my self as my own caregiver at that time.I have support of Griz and Ruby and my Mom .He would do what it took exept for Ruby ...she needs one parent here.Her brother is an amazing brother and maybe I can get through to him at least to hold the fort down.

I have also this mild fear of people when i am in a crowed place. I tend to be very attentive when i am alone and i keep looking around me and staring in people's faces and their hands, . If i see a knife my heart skips a beat and then i calm myself down through private talk. I'm i nuts?? A few days a go i was robbed and ever since i am terrified to leave the house.

I "flipped out" too when I learned that I had microcalcifications in my right breast, especially with an extensive family history of Cancer... including Breast Cancer. Then, I did some research and asked some questions and learned that statistically microcals are rarely, if ever, cancerous. And, they are the same type of calcifications that one hears about in regard to Arthritis.

I am not suicidal. However I fear this pain in the worst way. I fear it more than the pain of detox because at least I know that will pass. I just cannot wrap my mind around how even a genius doctor can bring a person from a place of feeing such pain in the middle of her back (and having back surgery) to being able to cope with the pain, and for it to even get better. I understand that pain gets better, about hyperalgesia, etc.

for crying out loud as my father moved abroad before I was born. For six years, this man was all I knew in my daily life. I spoke with my dad frequently on the phone but I never officially met him until I was six. I had two daddys and it was great you know? All of a sudden things turned ugly. My grandmother's guy just turned into a monster, he started to abuse me physically and a little sexually right up to my teens.

I agree, it's not fear like child abuse fear, it's a fear of discipline. I get from my mom and her boyfriend that I'm so strict, well no, my son won't eat a ton of candy before dinner, or ask someone else for something when I told him no, or sneak and eat candy or sneak a toy off when he knows he's not supposed to, and my moms boyfriends granddaughter is TERRIBLE, she bites, kicks, punches, and screams constantly.. she's 2.

I asked the question to others on this forum because I think it is a question we should ask ourselves ....fear can be paralyzing but it need not be...I think I have been reading to much eastern philosophy....

When I was little my dad would take off my pants and underwear and move me to the couch, he'd already be naked. I don't remember what he'd do from there, I tried to block it out. And as a teenager he'd come into my room and touch me.. I fear him all the time, im scare he'll do it again. I can't sleep sometimes because I'm so scared. I want to tell someone so they can help me.. But I don't know who.

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