You may want to look into the birthcontrol shots. Depo provera
. You get one every three months, so you just have to remember that doctors appointment. Missing 2-3 pill a month you may as well be taking all sugar pills because you are not covered.
If you tie taking your pill to an activity, eat breakfast, take pill, or you can set your cell phone to go off at a certain time each day.
But unless you want to be called Momma - wouldn't be having sex without a back-up.