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1381451 tn?1288095766 Hi I'm 19 years old and my girlfriend of two years and two months just broke up with me out of no where. We were talking (over text message) and then I asked who she went and hung out with the night before, because I kind of have trust issues. Not that she has done anything to not earn my trust. She then says that she can't do this because she can't stand not being able to do anything without me flipping out. She then asks me what I want and I said I just want to make her happy.
Avatar m tn broke up with my girlfriend 2 months ago. she has had a physical ailment for 20 months and finally had surgery about 3 months ago.she says a relatinship is something that she doesnt want or cant handle right now.she says she still loves me, thinks about me and misses me. just wondering what all of this means and what is the best thing for myself.i still love her dearly and we are still in communication fairly frequently and know she is not into anyone else or anything like that.
Avatar m tn I have tried a few times not to talk to her and each time i end up failing and messaging her. BUt everytime I do i just end up crying and in more pain. So you are right I do need to just leave her be. Thank you.
Avatar m tn My girlfriend of 4 months has had herpes for 7 years, with her only outbreak occurring when she was diagnosed at the age of 15. We've had unprotected sex and I've tested negative for HSV 2 twice, but I no longer want to risk getting herpes myself and I think I'm going to break up with her. I know I'd be losing a great girl, but I do NOT want to have herpes for the rest of my life. My question is since she's only had 1 outbreak in her life, is she still contagious?
Avatar m tn my girlfriend broke up with, she said she has no time for me and her parents are fitting a lot.she said patrick im really i am sorry this has to happen but i dont want it too happen this way, but theres a lot of stuff going on at home that i have to deal with. she said patrick i love you a lot i really do, i said to her i love you a lot to amanda, I said amanda im her any time if you need someone to talk too.
Avatar m tn before we had sex i asked my girlfriend to get tested. It was 11 weeks since she had had any possible exposure. We still have been practicing safe sex but last weekend after marathon sex. I noticed that the condom was broken and probably had been for a while. I went to my Dr and he said I was still at high risk because she hadn't been tested at 6 months. On these forums i see alot of shorter window periods. Can anyone give me some peace of mind and tell me if her 11 week test is enough time?
Avatar f tn So I broke up with my boyfriend after a somewhat rocky seven year relationship. The guy didnt treat me great. I often heard (mostly in rocky times) "your a ****** joke" and well he could yell for hours. Just couldnt calm down. There were lost of trust issues, compatibility issues but we were crazy about each other. We had so much history. So I persevered through the years with a positive outlook that has caused me palpitations and constant anxiety about the future.
6548496 tn?1384490023 how do you deal with a break up with your boyfriend? Me and my boyfriend just broke up because he cheated on me once again i need some advice somebody help~~~!!!!!!!!!
Avatar f tn I agree with Londres. This is not a good situation. First the old adage "you don't sh*t where you eat" applies here. If this goes bad, you're stuck seeing this man all the time. Believe me, I've been in your exact shoes with a co-worker of mine years ago. I didn't know about his girlfriend until after we had already been dating for a bit. They were supposedly broken up but then got back to together while him and I were talking.
Avatar f tn I'm up due to working long shifts, I do miss my girlfriend when I'm here but this is the life of a Firefighter/EMT.
Avatar f tn Well a guy i was with for about a 1 1/2 years, basically didn't even tell me he wanted to break up. He just moved on and started another relationship with someone else. I didn't find out about this for a month, so when i confronted him about it, the other girl was there and SHE was the one who basically broke it off with me, instead of him. He just stood there nodding the whole time and then just gave me a muddled sorry.
Avatar m tn t love me) The psychologist advices her to break up with me (which is why she have been having thoughts about it), because she believes that she needs to focus on herself only, and i think that it is somewhat true. She is using to much energi on thinking about this relationship instead of just enjoying it. I know that you can't love anyone until you learn to love yourself. I'm just relatively sure, that if we break up, she will get ALOT worse, because then she will be completely alone.
Avatar m tn I hope she'll realize that too..her depression to me isn't how should I say..isn't something that would turn me off of her..I wish I could help her, I've expressed how I feel about her depression and her choice for help, I fully support her but as you mentioned I hope she'll realize that she doesn't have to put me out on cold and put our relationship on pause.. As for your question..I'm afraid I'm not 100% certain myself..
Avatar m tn It could be any number of reasons - it would help you explain what your relationship is like in more detail first. Has something happened that would make her want this break? Anything, like a loss of interest in this relationship, due to not having much time together lately, that may be the cause. Perhaps she feels it's not completely working out? You need to make more time for her if you want to keep her interested....??
Avatar f tn m working as a security guard and I just got my own place with my girlfriend who I love so much and my stepson. Me and my girlfriend always find our selves buying pain pills even after we say we don't want them blah blah blah. I snort percecet and she like to swallow them but not more then two at a time and she is smart because she knows how to limit her self so that she won't withdrawal.
Avatar m tn s pretty much how it is with porn or some form of prostitution. You did say you would feel better if it was your girlfriend. You should have stopped when you became aroused, because wouldn't you think: "I love my girl so much, and I want to work things out with her, I want to be with her and embrace her, not do such dirty or lustful things" If it is something that is bothering you or would make your girlfriend hurt, it is simply wrong and shouldn't have been done.
Avatar n tn BE A MAN!!!! ans stand up for your self... speak up when u have to... (With respect all the time) and dont cry when she tells you she doesnt want you on the phone... (do it when ur alone)... and when she calls you BAD NAMES... HANG UP!!!!! and if she calls tell her you wont talk to her until she respects you!!!!!!!!!!! until she gets the point...
Avatar m tn ve never really had any luck with girls or relationships, so when I met a girl who was attracted to me, (somehow attracted enough to break up with her boyfriend of 18 months,) I jumped on the opportunity. Unfortunately, she wasn't very attractive to me. I mean, physically she's beautiful. But she's just so languid and uninteresting. This is where I went wrong. When I first started to spend time with her, I would lie to myself about her.
Avatar m tn Hello there; my girlfriend and I have been experiencing problems with sex. As the title indicates, her hymen does not seem to want to break; she is 23 years old, and I am her first partner. She is my third sexual partner, so I know we're doing things right, mechanically speaking, and I believe I am applying enough pressure to break the hymen.
Avatar f tn I fingered my girlfriend a week ago (not the first time) it was pretty rough then we stopped when we noticed bright red blood. The bleeding stopped right away but came back the next day and still bleeding until now but not too much. She doesnt want to go to the doctor and im worried. She said it isnt probably really serious. If i scratched her, will heal by itself? (It's been a week) If i broke her hymen partially, should i break it completely to stop the bleeding?