I don't know anything about your gf, but I know when I went through major surgery I pushed a lot of people away. My thought process on it was that I didn't want to cause them pain to have to see and deal with me when I had to go through with it all. Which is pretty stupid, but that was the idea I had. Maybe she could be in that mind frame, so giving her some time can help. After the ordeal is over things can go back to how it was before.
Ok, so a couple of months ago my ex cheated on my with her first boyfriend so we broke up. now he doesn't want her anymore and she realized what she has lost so she wants to get back together with me. we hooked up a few times. i'm so confused. i still love her, but i also don't know if i can love her like i used to because of what she did. additionally, i've been talking to another girl lately who i really like. so i don't want to ruin the chance of something there.
And one day, you will wake up and find that your heart aches less. And each day will get better. But you have to work at it otherwise you will just keep hurting. I know it doesn't help- but just about everyone has gone through this in their life--and sooner or later it gets better- and you feel you learned something from it. Meanwhile- just don't let your brain and heart work together to bring you down. Get busy--and eventually you will forget about the pain- and find someone else.
I know its stupid but it is what happened. So i was talking to her and trying to get her worked up. It basically turned into cyber sex. In the middle of it though it hit me. What was I doing? So i stopped the conversation and told the girl i dont want to talk anymore. I went straight to my girlfriends house and told her what had happend. She first said that it was ok. but later that night she told me how upset she was.
You called him when something happened, you called him probably all throughout the day so you have to just get out of that routine of wanting to talk to him. When I went through a major breakup I would find solace in the gym. I used to work out like crazy. I would take kick boxing, which I found to be extremely therapeutic in healing. I would take belly dancing to feel sexy. I would look good and feel good from the natural endorphins. It also gave me motivation and confidence.
t bear to break his heart and do what? Send him back home? What if I make a mistake? If I was to break up with him.. how the hell would I do this? It's scary to think about... but if it's not going to work in the long run, isn't waiting going to make it even worse for him? Sometimes I just want freedom to explore any other options, like meeting someone in my area who has all the qualities I want in someone.
But then I think about how loved I am..
I knew in my heart that when I came home things would be different. We would have a lot more time together and get to open up and know eachother more...the time we never had. I guess that is why me coming home this week was the "hope" I stll have this hope. Kind of like when I see him we will fall back into eachothers lives like it was and should have been in the beginning...
I mean he's been with other women before me, and he doesn't feel that way any longer. He keeps telling me he doesn't want to lose me over what he did during that break up, and that the only reason we'll break up is if I break up with him. He wants to stay for the long run.
Yes, I'm 21 and he's 23. We lived together for about 6 months last year, and we're moving back in together in July.
My ex-boyfriend and I were together for about 1.5 years. It was an amazing relationship full of love, communication, and mutual respect and support. We ended up splitting because of some issues related to his kids (whom I never met, because they were not open to meeting someone new, as their parents were newly divorced).
I have herd that the igm is not accurate at all. get the igg test. how did you originally get tested for hsv1? How long have you and your boyfriend been together or having sex and such? since the igm is not accurate, it is very possible that you had had it for a while.
did your boyfriend take an igg blood test or did they just kinda look at his parts?
Be strong thats what I am told every now and again my husband left me as I'm carrying our first child he does not text nor call he has just dissappeared as it is I'm at home with my parents and they try daily to comfort me but it's hard I know how you I feeling I'm in the same boat too be strong if you guys were meant to be you will be together again. I'm trying my best to focus on my pregnancy even though I'm thinking about him none stop.
m starting to get really happy my kids will be able to grow up together and always have someone they can trust at school and someone to play with. I hear its hard the first couple years but after that its easy. Itll be nice when they are 3 and 4 and will be able to occupy eachother and possibly have the same friends. There seems to be more benefits than downfalls to having babies so close together.
I know how you feel. It seems like this feeling will never go away and you cannot imagine yourself with someone else...what a bleak, depressing and dangerous feeling.
But please remember there is hope.
I know it's an old cliche but time really does heal...when I left my husband after 16 yrs. I was a mess. I missed my "old life" so much and I truly felt like there was no light at the end of the tunnel.
I'm 38 weeks, and have been dilated to a 5 for 2 weeks. I was checked this morning, hes in the right position, and 70% thinned. I've been having contractions about 20 minutes apart. Any way to get the consistent and strong? Or how to get my water to break? Help. I'm desperately miserable. Btw, I had my first at 35 weeks, so I'm not use to being this huge.
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