Break up advice living together
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Hi im new here but jusf looking for advice. Im 34 and my ex was 31. We were together 16 months. We met off a dating site and fell hard for one another. We had a great connection. I should add that i have my own flat and he lives with his parents. ( hes 31 and never left home. He has the money and both his parents work)... anyway everything was great the first 8 months. But things changed he started not making as much effort and wanted me to go to his more. Which i did...
s terms without turning to our DOC is a very difficult task as that is the only way we knew who to cope. But we have to break the habit, like smoking cigs, you light up after you eat, after a fight, after sex etc., but once you BREAK the cycle, it does start to become a habit and before we know it we have added clean time under our belts. So my friends, lets fight this beast lets put on our coat of armor and be ready to battle, i am ready... are you?
I mean he's been with other women before me, and he doesn't feel that way any longer. He keeps telling me he doesn't want to lose me over what he did during that break up, and that the only reason we'll break up is if I break up with him. He wants to stay for the long run.
Yes, I'm 21 and he's 23. We lived together for about 6 months last year, and we're moving back in together in July.
I don't think it would be a step back if it means salvaging a relationship. Maybe the break might be good for the both of you. Maybe you will learn to appreciate each other more when you are not on top of one another. It doesn't mean you can't ever live together again but take this time for yourself. Get some space when you need it and when you do see each other you will enjoy it rather than argue. Good luck.
s simple - with a couple living together - if both work, the housework gets split up between both of you. If one works full time and one does not - the one who does not work does the housework, due to both time factor and the fact that the person with the full time job is working hard to pay all the bills.
Thats the simplistic view though. What comes to me reading your post - why is a 24 year old not doing anything (study, work) and have not ambition to do more than watch tv all day?
The father of my child and I aren't together anymore and he's going to move in to help me with the baby for the first couple of months. But he's going out with a bunch of girls . (Sleeping with them) should I say something about it since he's going to be living in my house ? Or should i remain quiet and not be bothered about it since he's helping me with the baby?
Hi there, So, you are having a baby with him, is that right? Are you both teenagers? Lots of big things coming your way very soon. Are you living with his parents too or are you are with yours and he's with his? Sorry for all the questions, I'm just trying to understand.
Do you have any support from your own family?
On the surface, I think it is smart to expect certain things out of the father of our children.
My family lives in fl wile her family lives in NY we would have are own place there in fl land school houses taxes everything is cheaper I figured my kids three it would be the best time to up root instead of living with these people its starting to take its role on everything in my opinion. By no means my family isn't perfect either but they try to be good people with there flaws and at least work on them.
Honey, I always tell people to be very careful. When we do something dramatic (break up) with the hopes of a different outcome (they beg us to stay)--------- we are often bitterly disappointed. Your letter gave valid reasons for a break up.
I said in your previous post that if someone gets a terrific job offer that is what they want to do with their career---------- they should take it. And a supportive partner would actually encourage that. My husband travels a good deal with his job.
My boyfriend and I broke up 2 weeks ago. He is HIV+ and is on meds. I didnt want to break up with him as he is a great guy and I love him very much. I would go back to him ( in a second ! lol!) if we could find some ways of fixing our problems. The major problem of our relationship was his anger. He is not very good at communicating his feelings so would bottle them up and suddenly he would be furious over something and it would take him up to a week to get over it.
So me and my boyfriend have been together 4 years and the easyest way to go about things would be living together.. well for that to happen my grandpa (adopted father) told me we would have to get married. Im 6 months along... i brought up the subject to nick my boyfriend and he just didnt say anything back. Ive brought it up befor (when i first found out i was prego) and he said we should wait... but this time he just didnt respond. All he said was i love you...
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