Break up advice long distance relationship
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When we agreed to start dating, I was adamant on no long distance relationship. But that was before how I felt now as she does too.
There's nothing wrong with our relationship. We have great communication and we have a ton of similar interests and beliefs. She's perfect. I just feel like if we break up we she will be the "one that got away" and I don't want to lose her. I also can't think about her with anyone else. We talked and she felt the same way.
The other day I wrote a letter to my boyfriend expressing my feelings about how I felt about him... the main points of the letter were that he is not too romantic, that he doesnt take me into consideration because he never asked my opinion about a job offer he got (even after we had sex... him being the frst guy in my life... and after telling me that he wanted to marry me), and the reasons why I wouldnt want to be in a long distance relationship.
ll have to be in a long distance relationship... I dont feel like im ready to be in a long distance relationship because i know tht it wont end well... when he got the offer he didnt even ask for my opinion yet he says he wants to marry me someday... so my question is, is it worth it to be in a long distance relationship for 4 years or should we just be friends?
i am in a long distance relationship. It can be really hard to trust my bf cause we dont see each other all the time. He keeps telling me that he has been faithful to me and he loves me. We talk to each other everyday on the phone. We plan to be at one place and have a family. I am worried that he might be seeing other girls.. is long distance realtionship worth holding on to??
So I broke up with my boyfriend after a somewhat rocky seven year relationship. The guy didnt treat me great. I often heard (mostly in rocky times) "your a ****** joke" and well he could yell for hours. Just couldnt calm down. There were lost of trust issues, compatibility issues but we were crazy about each other. We had so much history. So I persevered through the years with a positive outlook that has caused me palpitations and constant anxiety about the future.
I am talking to this guy and we met close to a year ago. We just recently started talking like moving towards a relationship rather than a friendship the past month. Well, about a week ago he told me he was falling in love with me. We live in two different states but he doesn't mind the distance. He's come up here every week to spend his days off with me. He's really nice, he's everything I've ever wanted in a man.
It's very normal to go through a grieving process after a long relationship. Let yourself cry and have some sleepless nights. Eventually you will come out of this and be ready to live life again.
Break ups are never easy. Sorry you are going through one. NO matter what, even if they are for the best, they hurt and we feel like we might want them back. This happens even if WE are the one who asked for the break up. But here is the deal based on what you've written--- this always had bad news written on it. He's cheated on you, he's left you for his ex. All the other things you wrote are irrelevant as those two things are what matters. You don't need that.
Hello, I have been having confused feelings about my relationship of two years. We took a break a few months ago from the relationship to decide if we were heading in the right direction. She is has two businesses, and i'm currently in the military. It is a long distance relationship so i'm already missing out on the physical interaction. Lately, i've been feeling some kind of way about our relationship because i'm not happy because we don't really talk as much.
Im jus fed up of dis weird relationship , wen vr 2gthr its fyn n he acts normal but 1c he goes back 2 his college he hardly cares n ignore me lot (long distance relationship ) im nt able 2 4gt him n his memories n move on n m v v loyal 2 him , wat 2 do ??
A relationship that begins by sneaking around (even on a long-distance relationship) is not the most secure relationship ... if X has any sense, somewhere in his heart he is wondering if you would sneak around on him if the two of you were in a committed relationship, since you are on your present boyfriend. You say you're insecure and check up on your boyfriend, well, look to your own behavior; X should be insecure about you.
s going on in that loooooooooong distance between you...I was involved in a long distance relationship with a woman who come to find out was living with another guy and would lie to him to come stay with me...
There's a LOT of questions that need to be asked/answered here...and I think your parents are on the right track. I see danger signs.
An hour is not really a long distance relationship in my mind. My sister lives about 50 minutes from me and I will just go up to her place for dinner. We live in a larger city------ it takes some time to get to people in the SAME city. So, I'd not worry about the distance and encourage him to do the same.
He may just be nervous about the move in general. And a good future wife is empathetic to that.
t you work it so you are together? If not, why is it OK with you both to have a long-distance relationship? Being long-distance for 5 years just seems to me to be not really a normal relationship. In your shoes, I'd consider working with a therapist on the self-esteem issues, and after a few sessions, also mention this long-distance-for-a-long-time thing being OK with you.
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