I don't know anything about your gf, but I know when I went through major surgery I pushed a lot of people away. My thought process on it was that I didn't want to cause them pain to have to see and deal with me when I had to go through with it all. Which is pretty stupid, but that was the idea I had. Maybe she could be in that mind frame, so giving her some time can help. After the ordeal is over things can go back to how it was before.
I know how you feel. It seems like this feeling will never go away and you cannot imagine yourself with someone else...what a bleak, depressing and dangerous feeling.
But please remember there is hope.
I know it's an old cliche but time really does heal...when I left my husband after 16 yrs. I was a mess. I missed my "old life" so much and I truly felt like there was no light at the end of the tunnel.
You called him when something happened, you called him probably all throughout the day so you have to just get out of that routine of wanting to talk to him. When I went through a major breakup I would find solace in the gym. I used to work out like crazy. I would take kick boxing, which I found to be extremely therapeutic in healing. I would take belly dancing to feel sexy. I would look good and feel good from the natural endorphins. It also gave me motivation and confidence.
I'm 38 weeks, and have been dilated to a 5 for 2 weeks. I was checked this morning, hes in the right position, and 70% thinned. I've been having contractions about 20 minutes apart. Any way to get the consistent and strong? Or how to get my water to break? Help. I'm desperately miserable. Btw, I had my first at 35 weeks, so I'm not use to being this huge.
I just went to the doctor today for my pap. Saturday I had noticed something was wrong. I figured it wwas a yeast infection. Today when the doctor went to insert the clamp, the pain was horrible. She was down there for a minute or two and said she was almost certain it was herpes. Apparently my area seemed rather irritated and then she noticed what seemed to be a sore. She sent me to the lab for blood work and I'm waiting for the results.
Going back to work in two days.. Ive been on christmass break almost 3weeks...and just SLEPT. Little worried too for going back to work but what can u do. I am just gonna do my best and have sick leave if I cant handle it. Wouldnt wanna tell my boss and coworkers yet tho.... I have slept 16hours the worst days.... Week 7 starts tomorrow!!
And one day, you will wake up and find that your heart aches less. And each day will get better. But you have to work at it otherwise you will just keep hurting. I know it doesn't help- but just about everyone has gone through this in their life--and sooner or later it gets better- and you feel you learned something from it. Meanwhile- just don't let your brain and heart work together to bring you down. Get busy--and eventually you will forget about the pain- and find someone else.
I knew in my heart that when I came home things would be different. We would have a lot more time together and get to open up and know eachother more...the time we never had. I guess that is why me coming home this week was the "hope" I stll have this hope. Kind of like when I see him we will fall back into eachothers lives like it was and should have been in the beginning...
t bear to break his heart and do what? Send him back home? What if I make a mistake? If I was to break up with him.. how the hell would I do this? It's scary to think about... but if it's not going to work in the long run, isn't waiting going to make it even worse for him? Sometimes I just want freedom to explore any other options, like meeting someone in my area who has all the qualities I want in someone.
But then I think about how loved I am..
I know its stupid but it is what happened. So i was talking to her and trying to get her worked up. It basically turned into cyber sex. In the middle of it though it hit me. What was I doing? So i stopped the conversation and told the girl i dont want to talk anymore. I went straight to my girlfriends house and told her what had happend. She first said that it was ok. but later that night she told me how upset she was.
HI,
After stopping birth control it may take two to four months for your cycles to return to normal. Hence you need to be patient for things to revert back. If this does not happen then you need to consult your Doctor. Progesterone can be used for regulation of cycles. Hope this helps.
The answer is based on information provided. Exact advice is not possible without a proper examination and investigations. You are requested to consult your Doctor. Take care and keep us posted.
I'm 36 weeks and I've lost my mucus plug and I'm 1cm dilated I've been have bad contractions what are ways to dilate for my water to break or ways for my water to break I've done castor oil, blue cohosh, black cohosh, and evening primrose oil please help
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