try to be kind to yourself, allow yourself to feel what you are feeling, and like Cheryl said above, talk to your doc about an anti
med if you need it, at least to
get you through this difficult time. No need to
be a hero, right?
One last thing...my sister had a total thyroidectomy last year, and she has battled with low calcium (her parathyroid glands never started functioning post-op)...