10 months ago -- Should the appearance of my inner vulva, urethra
, vaginal opening be so different compared to before the
birth? The urethra
is about 1/2 inch higher up. The vaginal opening, which used to be a small (0 - 1cm) opening which I could clench shut at will, now takes up the entire cleft, no matter how many Kegels I do.
Basically, it looks like what used to be my inner vulva were completely ripped away by the baby.