Not having sex in relationship
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If you’re still interested in sex in general, apart from your relationship, this could be an indicator that it’s the relationship that’s problematic, not sex in and of itself.
So, to recap: you may have negative attitudes about sex in general, or you may have performance issues or be bored or frustrated. Think about the issues I’ve raised and see if any are true for you. Remember not to put pressure on yourself.
I am 38 & my partner is 36 Now it is june I am not having sex with my partner since February because of some tensions not in our relations but because of our financial problems she is in no mood of having sex but we stay together we don't even kissed each other
we have a 7 year old son
a) is it harmful for her health ?
b) is it harmful for my health ?
There is a difference between making love and having sex, something that is confused these days. It also starts in the morning, in case you did not know. Sex is different for men as opposed to women. Compliment her on her looks, her actions, make her feel appreciated by doing little things for her but dont be obvious that you want it to lead to sex. Do a load of laundry for her or get her breakfast for her and be genuine.
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I was wondering if anyone else had/has the same problem as me, i am nearly 21 years old and have been with my partner for 6 years, I have never really been interested in having sex although i put up with it for many many years, i have a son 13 months and since i had him (ceasarian) i have also fell pregnant with a second 2 months after giving birth although i did not go ahead with the pregnancy as i was feeling very depressed as it was, i since have the IUD put in to protect me against havin
Yea im sorry but if he is the love of your life he needs to accept it and step up it may not have been ideal ir planned but uk sex makes things hasten occasionally so in my mind sex= being prepared bc you just never know lol but I can't see ruining/terminating this babies life bc ppl can't be responsible enough to deal with the consequences and step up. Im dry but that is how I feel of he lives you then he needs to step up. Counseling could be very helpful.
The last guy I had sex with we are now back in communicating terms but not nothing serious and I confided in him about how not properly ending things caused me to have anxiety issues. He told me that I over think and that he doesn't have any STD and that the reason he broke things off is because of my anxiety and over thinking. He told me I am a good person and deserve the best.
If you’re still interested in sex in general, apart from your relationship, this could be an indicator that it’s the relationship that’s problematic, not sex in and of itself.
So, to recap: you may have negative attitudes about sex in general, or you may have performance issues or be bored or frustrated. Think about the issues I’ve raised and see if any are true for you. Remember not to put pressure on yourself.
In my first trimester I was to sick to do much of anything. Then a month into my second everything Change, I wanted more sex. Sure in the third trimester you feel huge and there will be days you don't want sex but then there will be days you honestly feel like you'll die if you don't get laid. Honestly, at least for me it makes you feel better about yourself, with the emotions and the fact your body is going through so many changes, that your guy still wants you like that.
I wouldn't keep pushing your girlfriend for sex. She may end up resenting you and harbor negative feelings to you if that's all you keep talking about. Try focusing more on your relationship with her, don't bring up sex, and do nice things for her. Give her a back massage, help her with cleaning, etc. When you bring up sex, don't bring it up as "you don't do this or you don't ...", as that will only make her defensive.
I have only had one sexual relationship, the one I am in now for 1year, and before this my bf and I were not using condoms, just oral contraceptives. I do not have the warts strain, but he does and is currently being treated for it with Aldara cream. We have been using condoms ever since I found out I had the virus and have not since he started his treatment. Can we still have sex while he is being treated? Am I at risk of contracting warts or any other strain?
Cool, cheers for the answers guys.
ive never had an obviuos outbreak so im doing alot of inspecting n he yells at me when i do. tells me hes not changing our sex life so it doesnt matter if im having an OB. is this normal? i did make an igg appointment for him. i just wonder if he knows he has hsv2 n never told me or if he just really is super supportive-which im having a hard time swallowing.
Maybe not brake up but sit down and have a talk with him and see where you can go from there remember there is a blessing on the way!
This is something that we were having problems with even before we stopped having sex but it feels like not having sex might have made it worse. He always does it late night or early morning in that bathroom and he says its always a constant battle in his head about if he needs it or not. Its tearing us apart and it makes it hard for me to kiss him or be near him after i know what he was just doing.
So I plan on having sex with this guy I've been talking to for a while now. We're both going away for a while this summer and won't be seeing each other for a month. I really want to have this experience with him but I'm nervous. I don't want him to think I'm bad or think I'm doing something wrong. Do you have any advice on having sex? Any advice or tips would really help! (I have no idea what I'll be doing!)
Please help!!!
If you want porn in your life, then so be it. But then it is not fair to have your special rules around it such as ONLY with me or I'll feel bad about myself. That is my opinion. You're either okay with porn or you aren't.
Does he watch to the point that it interferes with your true sex life? Then porn becomes a problem and should be gone completely from a relationship.
t have to worry about transmitting the virus to your partner as Fleetwood already pointed out. It will not be a big deal in your relationship. Should you ever become pregnant, make sure your obgyn knows about your genital herpes infection.
hsv1 genitally is the most common cause of genital herpes in the UK.
I'm really sorry that you're going through this - but honestly this guy sounds very cruel and demeaning to you on a regular basis. I think being treated like this can adversely affect your own self worth if you continue to accept it.
You were found to be clean of STD;s, but he was not. He feels nothing about punishing you for a misdiagnosis, whereas he's not acting sorry for his having an STD. Did he get his STD while he was in a relationship with you, or before?
Well I feel like that's what you are doing, missing out on life and on a truly healthy relationship. No sex isn't the only important part of a relationship but it is integral in any relationship because to me, I feel sex is intimacy. It makes the difference between a great relationship versus a great friendship. Because frankly that's what the both of you have, a wonderful, glorious friendship. With the exception of you getting a few handjobs and you pleasing her.
without intercourse by doing small matters i losing my sperms is it normal Due to this now only i am getting toe pain now and then. If we not involve in sex for 10 days i am relaxed from toe pain so if i am lose my sperms i getting toe pain severly is sperms losing without intercourse cause weakness?
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