Having sex in new relationship
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I have tested neg. at 80 days, 84 days, and 89 days Thankfully. Anyway I am now in a relationship and we would like to have unprotected sex. We have decided to get tested however to be safe. Pending both negative tests do you think it is wise for me to have unprotected sex with her? I know you suggest 3 months is conclusive but my reg. Dr. suggests 6. Thats her stance and I cant debate it but while I wait until then do you think with my current tests I am okay and not at risk of infected her?
Hi and sorry about my maybe bad english. So, i am gay guy from Athens, Greece. I started new relationship with hiv negative (tested) guy. We didn't slept yet but we want to.I My last high risk exposure (unprotected anal sex) was 10 (ten) years ago. I have done hiv test, ELISA antibody 3rd generation. It was negative (non reactive).
So I was in a relationship with a guy for about 2 years. He has HSV2 and I accepted that part of him, sadly, the way he portrayed herpes was that it was fairly easy to prevent with simply the use of condoms and medication. We've broken up and he's proved himself (even during the relationship) to be someone who is un-trustworth and manipulative. I am now freaking out because I decided to trust him instead of do my own research.
but (lets say he is having sex with multiple partners and picks up a different strain of HPV... he could then infect you with that new strain)... Not to say he is just wanted to give you an example.
You can still have sex is it not going to change anything you both probably have both types as you've had unprotected sex for a year...
I have learned that most HPV infections will clear themselfs with in two years.
Hey I just recently met a guy who might be the one. I've made the mistake of having sex with someone who didn't love me. But with my new boyfriend I feel he is the one. Should I have sex? If so would it be healthy if I just, in the past month, had stitches removed down there from rough sex? Is it possible that it would tear again??
Plz help!!
To start with some background information: I lost my virginity at 17 and only had pain the first two or three times having sex and every other time was perfectly fine. After that relationship ended I didn't have sex for 3 years until I got into a new relationship, my current relationship. I am now 21 years old. We tried to have sex and of course it was painful seeing as I didn't have sex for three years and this new partner was larger than the previous.
At least you are aware of this and not just jumping in having unprotected sex... Good for you, and tech. it is hard to trust anyone today which is why having a testing date is the best thing ever...
Even then ppl are unfaithful and that is where trust and respect should play a role.. Good luck and continue your safe practices...
For already moms hows your relationship with your partner been after having babies.Have u bonded more or have you grown distant+hows the sex life.
This is something that we were having problems with even before we stopped having sex but it feels like not having sex might have made it worse. He always does it late night or early morning in that bathroom and he says its always a constant battle in his head about if he needs it or not. Its tearing us apart and it makes it hard for me to kiss him or be near him after i know what he was just doing.
Treatment can effectively limit symptoms initially and prevent painful outbreaks, and therefore the greatest fear of most people in having herpes is the problems it causes in dating, having sex, and forging new relationships. If new partners are not in your future, the biggest potential concern is moot. In that case, many couples would be less compulsive in preventing transmission and some would take no precautions at all.
You just end it. There is no easy way to end any relationship. You tell that person you want to make your marriage work and that this relationship shouldn't have started in the first place and you walk away. Change your numbers and do whatever you can to avoid places you know you can run into that person. There can be no contact whatsoever. This is a dangerous game that was played and I hope that the spouses in this situation make it out without feeling the pain.
I need help with this anxiety because i fear it will ruin the new relationship that i am in. It has also ruined my everyday routine of things. I can't sleep because i am up all night searching the web for HIV.
I know exactly what you mean. i'm going be 20 in September and i finally have my first bf but i keep getting extremely sick whenever i'm not hanging out with him or even when im out with him something messes with my stomach.
Have any of u ladies been in a relationship for a while, had kids then seperated? Just a relationship - no marriage? I know everyone's situation is different but I'm stressed out. Ive been in an abusive relationship for 9 years now and am pregnant with my 5th. I want him to leave but he won't. I tell him daily I don't want him here & I don't wanna be with him. I've been ready for a long time. I'm so sick and tired of his bs.
I HIV tenst (c. Anti-HIV1 / 2 + Ag p24) after 38 days of the relationship was negative ...
Retesting after 67 days (9 weeks and 4 days)
Antic Anti-HIV 1/2:
Negative
And today new test with 11 weeks accurate:
Antic Anti-HIV 1/2: Negative ...
I can conclude the result and continue with my life, or will need another test?
I am starting a new relationship and the young lady has advised me that she has genital herpes. This is my first experience with dating someone that knowingly has this condition. She was freaking out when she told me and was expecting me to run away but I didn't. Knowledge is a very powerful alli when it comes to health concerns.
Now some info:
Me: HSV-1 orally for 30+ years(presumptive as never been tested).
I'm sorry you're going through this. I know how hard it can be to keep an uplifted sense of self worth when we aren't actively desired by the one closest to us.
Has anything changed in his life outside the home? How's work? How are his friends and family? Does he spend a lot of time away? Does he have a history of depression? He may be distracted, and distractions are usually temporary. I wonder also how he's adjusting to having a cute new demand in his life.
Hi, this is my first post here, back in my 20's (now in my early 40s) I got diagnosed with Gws, and it took a couple of years to get rid of properly. But they went for good in the end, well so I thought. I'd been having sex for the best part of the last decade with a friend but it's not a proper relationship, with no problems whatsoever right up until the last time we had sex.
You said he was alright with the relationship in the beginning, well, assuming that most relationships are not sexual in the beginning, that's probably why he was alright with it. This was just a guy that came around here and there.
But now he's intruding in the boy's most crucial aspects of life--his mother and his home.
I chose to be a virgin till i got married. My husband is amazing. We are in a great relationship. He always initiates sex, and most of the times i wont feel like it. I dont know why. I feel bad to turn him down so many times. For the past 3 months, i moved away from him for work. We meet only once a month. I thought this would help, coz i would be more wanting to have it as i get just one weekend in one month. But that has not changed at all. We do not have relationship problems or worries.
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