can having sex too soon ruin a relationship

Thankyou guys so much for your comments. I really think its so important for girls to have control over their own bodies and have enough respect for themselves to give themselves away only when they know the time is right. There should never be any pressure or force that is pulling a girl into having sex with a guy. Everything should be with full consent. I'm debating on whether or not I want to wait until I get married to have sex which was my philosophy as a kid.

I was also using a lambskin condom because I could never feel any sensation in a latex condom. This bothered me a lot because I can not keep going like this, having unprotected sex with different women. I went to the doctors to test the nerves in my penis and everything, including blood work, was normal. My doctor ruled it as psychological but I knew it wasn't. I decided to take the matter in my hands and gave it deep thought.

it might be that too. it is very hard to recuperate after having a child mentally and physically. especially if this is your 1st baby. body is trying to recover a tramatic change. she's young and all. you sometimes have to be really patient with her and not to pressure her. having children is a big change in a couples relationship. everyone is deifferent. maybe you both need to talk to a relationship therapist and dr can help you guys. this happend to me when i had my first baby.

s still a young relationship. 15 is WAY too young to be having sex. like judy said what about pregnancy? b/c and condoms are NOT 100% effective and you can still wind up pregnant. what about std's? again condoms break. it happens. having sex is a tremendous responsibility and i highly suggest you talk to your parents first. i've been with my husband for 5 years, married for 2 of those and i've known him for almost 18 years...our relationship is still a young one.

Hi, I'm almost 14 and I had sex with my boyfriend 11 days ago. It's probably too soon to tell if I'm pregnant but I got a very faint positive line on a test last night. I should have started my period today and I haven't. When should I go in for a pregnancy test....?

with my girlfriend for about a year, recently during sex I can stay erect for long periods of time but I just cannot finish. This seems to ruin the mood for her, (even though I cannot understand the difference it would make for a female), Eventually I get tired lose concentration and lose it. I was wondering is this a mental problem or a physical problem? She is a great looking girl, but I noticed it helps if I start thinking of other women.

Thank you for your comments Grace. It's hard to believe you do this just as a service to people!! Thank you is not enough. -regarding the testing they are doing - I guess they are testing for bv/yeast/and all other std's. It just seems to much of a coincadence that this all started 1 week after having unprotected sex in a new relationship. I know I'm obsessing because I'm looking for sores a couple times a day and I'm always looking for information on the internet.

I bought baby boy shirt and some boy socks cause we thought we were having a boy and when I went to 4th ultrasound they said I was having a girl...

I have a very nromal cycle that only last 4-5 days every 28 days. My last cycle was Jan 5-9. on the 18th of this month I started experiencing lower abdominal cramps but on a constant basis along with tenderness of my breast with slight nausea throughout the day. I also had a miscarriage in Aug '09(I was 5 wks).

Whoa, less than 2 months and you are planning to get married?? You are still in the "honey moon" stage of your relationship where everything seems wonderful and are on cloud 9. If you are truly meant to be, then you will still want to get married after being together for a year. I would give your relationship more time and just wait. Keep dating each other and make sure that he is the right one for you. Marriage is a serious commitment that should not be taken lightly.

I'm in the same boat as you. Have 2 boys of my own and a stepson...would love love a girl and have a mother daughter relationship..

s at such a young life and it really messed up there Life at a Young age..Sure the Babys are a blessing but a Baby having a Baby is just not the way to go..Enjoy Life..Let your self grow up..This might just be Puppy Love right now. Be Safe!

m having a boy but keep in mind your gonna get all kinds of stuff if you throw a baby shower, I got a few outfits and started buying diapers and big things like crib, bassinet, rocking chair and changing table but most everything else you will more likely get as gifts

Why not come to an agreement? Once a week he hangs with his friends and the other days he is at home like a good boyfriend. Trying to stop him is just going to make you mad and him resentful but as parents to be he has to understand those partying ways have to cut down. We all need time to have fun with each other and apart. It's about respect and knowing when enough is enough. Good luck.

My mum told me she prefers her husband over me. She's dragged me around my whole life and once I turned 18 I stopped it. I spoke my mind and all it's done is ruin our relationship. He's not my dad. Why am I not good enough for her?

re not looking for sex with a partner anytime soon. Just enjoy that you can finish so soon. As you get older, start trying to make it last longer by giving yourself less stimulation, or even stopping for a few minutes between when you start and finish. You can even start a little in the morning, go all day, and finish when you get home. You've got to build up the stamina.

Your not a "Ho" you were not in a relationship and neither was he at the time so you had sex. Your both adults. That doesn't make you that. Do what you have to do to get what you need from him for your child. I'm sure its her putting stuff in his head but one day he will regret not being there. But your baby has to come first forget what they want. And he wi feel resentment towards her for it. Enjoy your pregnancy and don't let these two bring you down.

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No I have an appointment but it's a ways off. In July I noticed why I thought were skin tags on the back of my right upper thigh I thought nothing of it.

so my thing is my boyfriend and i dont have protected sex. yes im aware of what follows doing that, & now sadly i'm learning the hard way. when is the earliest i can take a test ?!

I have a one year old right now and just got my confirmation today that I am expecting again, does it seem too soon? We are beyond thrilled but yet in the back of my mind I am definitely scared to have 2 little one's.. Are there any other moms who have children close in age?

m pretty sure that since then my sex drive has been almost zero. Does anyone know if herpes can cause a low sex drive or do you think it will be more an emotional reaction? I am still with the same boyfriend as when i found out I had it, and think i always thought he had given it to me as he also gave me chlamydia. I don't know if in the back of my mind that has something to do with me not wanting to have sex with him.

I have the antibiotics for the treatment for chlamydia from freaking out about it before I started my relationship. Is it too soon to take it as its only been 17 hours since I had sex. I know I shouldn't take them without being tested but I don't want to be freaking out the whole time I'm traveling.

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