having sex for the first time in a new relationship

I was bleeding not That much which seems to be normal but today is a week from when we had sex for the first time and I woke up with dark/red blood. (I had my period a week before we had sex, basically 4 days after my period we had sex) I don't understand why I'm having more blood coming out. Is it because of the pill or it's normal please help!!!

The idea here is to be on birth control JUST IN CASE the condom breaks or slips off or you just plain forget. Expect sex to NOT be great the first time. He will break your hymen, and this can cause pain and some (not a whole lot) of bleeding. It can take a few goes at it for it to begin to feel good.

Foreplay getting you wet is a good thing, it will help him slide in more easily. Make sure the mood is right and you are as relaxed as you can be (under the circumstances!). Ask him to go in a bit at a time, just the tip to start with, then get a little deeper with each stroke, he shouldn't shove in to full depth with his first thrust on your first time. Is this the first time for him too (as far as you know)?

Last week, we did it again without any condoms, but I started having light bleeding again, but it was only half way through, and we were having a hard time getting it in like the first time. Was that normal?

Before I met him I dated guys and had sex. For many, sex is a casual thing but for me its something sacred. I've only had sex with two and did oral to one. I understand that it's in the past but for some reason I feel dirty about it. I came from a family that PREACH about sex being for marriage and at times is ridiculed by my sister because I change up guys and have sex. They think I have sex with every single guy I've dated and really I don't.

If you feel comfortable enough to make the next step in your relationship I'd be telling your boyfriend that you're a little worried. It is a scary thing doing it for the first time. But it will be awkward, all first times are, from people I have spoke to. But sex is something that will get better over time.

so today I had sex for the first time and he used a condom and it didn't have any holes in it or riped it was brand new , also he held onto it when he came and then pulled out .

Many men “imprint” on a person, object or activity the first time they’re sexual with someone.This becomes a terrific turn-on for the rest of their life. This is why the lingerie industry is so successful! It sounds like the interaction with a sex worker is very arousing for you.

Whenever sex hurt for me especially the first 3-4 months of our sexual relationship. He would always suggest stopping. He's loving, caring and considerate.

Hi, It's me again. I'm sorry its your first time. Bleeding after intercourse for the first time is normal in most cases. A womans vaginal opening is somewhat protected by a tissue called a "hymen", that is usually torned during sexual activity. At most if it isn't, It is removed during durning childbirth by an obstetrician during delivery. As I mentioned in an previous post if this bleeding continues after you've been engaging in sex for some time. See your doctor.

I'm 14 and a female. I had sex for the first time yesterday with my boyfriend. During I didn't get any pleasure, is this normal? and also I sometimes had sharp pains during intercourse. After sex I went to the rest room and realized I was bleeding? Today I had a little feel downstairs, it feels like the skin at the bottom of my vagina has torn. I'm too scared to have look. I'm quite tight so is it possible?

I had anal sex for the first time and right after my butt cheeks were extremely red and irritated. It has been about 5 days and it is getting better but i have some itching and noticed a few bumps on the sides of my anus (normal colored) should i be concerned about herpes?

I am 20 yrs old and this is my first time having sex. My boyfriend did not use a condom and I wasn't on birth control.... it's been a few days since we last had sex and he only had it in me for a few seconds (I was first on top but it still hurt, and then he went on top and it hurt more). Is that normal??? and the day after sex my vagina still hurt -- it felt like someone poking inside. So now as of this afternoon I was ready to take a shower and noticed brown spots on my undies....

And it probably helps a first-time mom if her husband is not a first-timer. I believe the relationship in a marriage needs to be pretty settled, tested and loving if parenthood is new to both, otherwise the amaze new dads can stumble into a state of shock... By my experience the "daze of happiness and amazement" as you cal it lasted about three days and then new dad moved to the basement to indulge in video games for good. We only spoke again when I moved out...

This is my first pregnancy, I've always wanted to have a baby shower, but I don't think I'll be having one because I'm all alone and yes lillerily no friends or family even the father of my baby doesn't want her, he had a new born two months ago n they had a baby shower for the other girl but I don't think they'll have one for me because I'm sure it's embarrassing for him family, the fact he just had a kid..

This is actually a relationship problem. Though someones sexual relationship will in general reflect the rest of their relationship.

this works almost every time , masturbate 2-4 hours before your sex nite , that can prevent pre cumming , im 34 the first time i had sex with my wife im with now i shot off before i got in , yeah it was bad , but its ok , if that does happen , just stop for a few mins, than try again , there is no shame my wife was very pleased that she did that to me , but her mouth was the ultimate decider in that one , if you dont know what a clit is , learn , you cant go wrong with that , and women love ora

At her 8 week testing she was HIV negitive as well as all other STDs. Can I feel comfortable in having sex with her at this time do to the test results she has at 8 weeks post exposure with her cheating husband? What are the chances she is infected with HIV or other STDs? If you were me would you feel ok with unprotected sex after these results? I have engaged in a few sex acts with her and wanted to know your thoughts on them. 1.

If you're having this much fear over your first time...maybe you're just not ready?? Are you in a commited relationship?? Do you know why you're so scared? It seems to me like it may be more than just fear of pain or bleeding. I don't know your history so, it's hard to say. Yes, it is natural, especially for women, to have some fear their first time. What you're describing is all out anxiety. Have you talked to a doctor?

I just had sex for the first time. I am not on any type of birth control but plan on getting it soon. I am set to get my next period in about 5 days and was wondering if it is likely that I am currently fertile? Also, any other helpful information you could tell me about, thank you.

So I was just wondering if I it takes me a lot of time to have se again, will my body act like Im having sex for the first time? Will my vagina be close and tight again like I had never had sex before again? Just curious. I dont know when I will have sex again anyway but I want to be prepared for when it will happen again, in a couple of months maybe.

Any girls or doctors here can help me? I am going to have sex for the first time with a guy. I know most of will find it very strange- but please understand that some cultures are very different and conservative. I am 32 but from a religious family. There are TWO major problems: 1-First I am 5' tall 120Lb and he is around 6' and has a very big and very thick penis. Even the tip of his penis is too wide to enter my vagina it seems as I am very very petite.

I had sex for the first time last Saturday, which was almost 6 days ago. My boyfriend didn't have an condom on, and he sticked his penis only half-way inside me because since he didn't know how to put an condom on, I didn't want him to break my "cherry".

LOL My hubby works 11hr shifts 5 days and a 6hr shift on the 6th day. It is normal for guys to not want to have sex if they are working a lot. I would recommend to use this time to get intimate in other ways like taking baths together, if that's not possible than after he gets out of the shower offer to rub lotion on him its intimate and still very sensual. He can do the same for you too.

s pretty robust (and still intact), and his unsuccessful attempts will continue to be very painful for you. If this is the case, your doctor can arrange for the minor surgical assistance useful in opening the passage.

Hey! three days ago, i had sex for first time with a guy. I am worried about getting hiv, we had anal sex (with condom), i was receptive partner, we had mutual oral sex, and after he finished, his condom, outside of my body has broke. His sperm was over my body, and i think some was on his fingers as well. He put it down, and then fingered me. Should i get tested? Is there risk for getting HIV? I dont know him well.

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