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Avatar f tn I am dating this really great guy. The first problem is with myself. Before I met him I dated guys and had sex. For many, sex is a casual thing but for me its something sacred. I've only had sex with two and did oral to one. I understand that it's in the past but for some reason I feel dirty about it. I came from a family that PREACH about sex being for marriage and at times is ridiculed by my sister because I change up guys and have sex.
Avatar n tn I’m also wondering whether you are still having any kind of sexual fantasies—apart from your relationship—and whether you’re self-pleasuring. If you’re still interested in sex in general, apart from your relationship, this could be an indicator that it’s the relationship that’s problematic, not sex in and of itself. So, to recap: you may have negative attitudes about sex in general, or you may have performance issues or be bored or frustrated.
Avatar f tn but (lets say he is having sex with multiple partners and picks up a different strain of HPV... he could then infect you with that new strain)... Not to say he is just wanted to give you an example. You can still have sex is it not going to change anything you both probably have both types as you've had unprotected sex for a year... I have learned that most HPV infections will clear themselfs with in two years.
Avatar m tn Hi there, I was wondering if it is possible, theoretically, for someone to have an STD of any kind if they have only ever had sex (non coital) with one person, both individuals having never been with anyone else. If so, which STDs?
Avatar f tn claimed he was stressed, also supposably was bothered by me having a belly, and didnt want to stir things up in there for me. cuz i was having contractions and they would become more consistant after sex. but i was begging n for 3 wks he wouldnt. yet he went to a strip club! i was soo upset.
Avatar f tn So I plan on having sex with this guy I've been talking to for a while now. We're both going away for a while this summer and won't be seeing each other for a month. I really want to have this experience with him but I'm nervous. I don't want him to think I'm bad or think I'm doing something wrong. Do you have any advice on having sex? Any advice or tips would really help! (I have no idea what I'll be doing!) Please help!!!
Avatar f tn My bfs same way it gets annoying lol i try to explain n change scenario to a better one they can understand they just either dont wanna hear it or really dnt understand .
Avatar f tn This is something that we were having problems with even before we stopped having sex but it feels like not having sex might have made it worse. He always does it late night or early morning in that bathroom and he says its always a constant battle in his head about if he needs it or not. Its tearing us apart and it makes it hard for me to kiss him or be near him after i know what he was just doing.
Avatar f tn It seems likely that you were infected 2-10 days before your first sores. This sounds like your partner gave you oral sex in the timeframe and infected you with his oral HSV1 infection. This is a reasonable situation to be in as you both now have HSV1. He is most unlikely to become infected genitally as he carries strong immunity to the virus. As such his approach is entirely reasonable. You can go about your sex life just as before.
Avatar m tn In my opinion, you are way to young to be having sex. Sorry, Just my opinion. There is so much more to it then the natural act. Emotions, spirituality and so on. But that is my opinion. Wish I would have waited, think my life would have turned out a bit differently. But I agree with specialmom, concentrate on something else for a while.
Avatar f tn So I was in a relationship with a guy for about 2 years. He has HSV2 and I accepted that part of him, sadly, the way he portrayed herpes was that it was fairly easy to prevent with simply the use of condoms and medication. We've broken up and he's proved himself (even during the relationship) to be someone who is un-trustworth and manipulative. I am now freaking out because I decided to trust him instead of do my own research.
969032 tn?1247606329 hi im having sum problems with my relationship...my bf and i been going out for 1month and 3wreeks...and sumtimes i wud call him he pick up but other times he doesnt answer and wen i ask him y h didnt answer he say hes fone wuz on silent or hes friend wuz using his fone..then wen i say ok well didnt u c the missed call he sed NO he doesnt...but i understand becuz he has a lil baby girl to take care off...
11845717 tn?1421538818 Are sex performance problems having a negative impact on your relationship? This discussion is related to <a href="/posts/Sexual-Dysfunction-for-men-and-women/problems-in-the-bedroom/show/2194680">problems in the bedroom</a>.
Avatar f tn few months later my boyfriend came out with warts all over his penis he manages to get them frozen off but he stopped having sex with me in 2016, I came to terms with it that he Was just paranoid and wasn’t comfortable to do so at the moment in case his warts come back. But now as they have been gone at least 10 months he doesn’t touch me he doesn’t let me touch him just pushes my hand off.
Avatar m tn Well I feel like that's what you are doing, missing out on life and on a truly healthy relationship. No sex isn't the only important part of a relationship but it is integral in any relationship because to me, I feel sex is intimacy. It makes the difference between a great relationship versus a great friendship. Because frankly that's what the both of you have, a wonderful, glorious friendship. With the exception of you getting a few handjobs and you pleasing her.
Avatar f tn I am having sex with my husband weekly once. Apart from intercourse we do all the things. without intercourse by doing small matters i losing my sperms is it normal Due to this now only i am getting toe pain now and then. If we not involve in sex for 10 days i am relaxed from toe pain so if i am lose my sperms i getting toe pain severly is sperms losing without intercourse cause weakness?
Avatar m tn Hi. I have been in a monogamous relationship for two years. My boyfriend has had cold sores (start as grouped blisters on the lip/ corner of lip which rupture and heal over a short period of time). After engaging in oral sex I developed similar grouped blisters that spread over my vagina with burning urine. I was convinced he had given me herpes, however he has now had himself tested and all the tests have come back negative (including a IgG).
Avatar f tn t have any sex in those 9 years, she has no clue. And unless that was her only sex encounter in her entire life, its nothing more than a guess. If anyone came to me 9 years later and accused me of infecting her, I would laugh it off. Especially if she has been sexually active even once in those 9 years. Good luck proving that in court.
Avatar f tn I have a boyfriend whom i love and trusted so much that even though we planned not to have sex till we marry we broke that vow and that's silly on my side for allowing that . After having sex and i left things began to change and we started having problems. I read on his chat with a friend that he is not ready for me cos of my monetary issues which is cos i asked for something to sort myself out in school. And on another chat he told the friend that my breast is pechee that is soft.
Avatar n tn You should have your fiancé checked for chamydia. I have heard that some people don't have symptoms, but if your fiancé is JUST now getting symptoms, I'd be a little concerned.
Avatar m tn Yeah might be im too much into this relationship and im possesive because I have seen his chats with other gals talking about hangouts and dinner and since its a long distance relationship im bit concerned and I hardly call him in the evenings and reason he tells for hiding this relationship is that his parents wont accept because we both from different culture and religion
7018919 tn?1389918419 lately i haven't had the desire to have sex with my husband and he always wants to have sex . i don't know if it's a pregnancy problem or if it's just me , i don't wanna hurt his feelings saying he doesn't excite me as much anymore but sometimes i feel forced to have sex with him and i don't know what to do ... any help ?
Avatar m tn It’s no wonder that many men feel insecure about their sexuality. Great sex involves your whole body; in fact, having great, mutually satisfying sex is usually quite the opposite of what you see in those performance-oriented sex videos. The more you think of sex as being about performance, the more worries you'll have. If you're stressed, you'll probably worry even more. And this can be a vicious circle. For most of us, sex is about fun and pleasure.
Avatar f tn I’m also wondering whether you are still having any kind of sexual fantasies—apart from your relationship—and whether you’re self-pleasuring. If you’re still interested in sex in general, apart from your relationship, this could be an indicator that it’s the relationship that’s problematic, not sex in and of itself. So, to recap: you may have negative attitudes about sex in general, or you may have performance issues or be bored or frustrated.
Avatar f tn d say that often a lack of intimacy in a relationship can be traced to other underlying issues. I agree a sex therapist would be a good idea--------- but if you have difficulty finding one or your insurance doesn't cover that, a traditional therapist would help you look at your relationship as a whole and include sexual issues. good luck!
Avatar f tn i'm having major problems in bed with my boyfriend of 10 years. we have sex just about every night. he doesn't last longer then 6 minutes. its like clockwork. it doesn't matter if he starts off slow and works his way up or if its a wam bam thank you mam. he has stopped pleasing me. sex is all for him. i spend so much time "pleasing" him and he does nothing for me. he won't kiss me, which really bothers me.