She is more intelligent, interesting, warm, creative, principled, ambitious, passionate and she believes that
sex is an important part of the
relationship, as do I. She is in
a similar situation, but has been in it longer so it is worse for her. We have not had sex, and will not as long as we are with our partners, but we do talk and sometimes kiss. Talking to this new girl makes me want to leave my girlfriend and not want to enter a passionless, sexless marriage with her.