Having sex before a relationship

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Avatar m tn Hi , I think, neither man n or woman like to use condom when having sex, so i am just curious that it is common in USA that you both have a HIV test before you have a new relationship?
Avatar m tn i m 17+ i m having sex from 1 year with my gf and now i m not having fun from him but i can't leave her and i also dont like the way she do while doing sex pls help me what to do whole doing sex and at that time my pines dont react so pls help
Avatar m tn Having both members of a couple test before having unprotected sex is a good idea which will keep them healthy. I endorse the testing you plan. Several comments. Hepatitis C is not a sexually transmitted infection unless a person is practicing unprotected, receptive anal sex and even then, when it occurs, occurs mostly in men who have sex with other men.
Avatar f tn I was tested about two months before we broke up and came back clean, we had sex maybe twice before we broke up (I kept having yeast infections before my period until I changed my diet, but even now I'm still prone to them). There was also one time when we had sex and he thought he had healed from an outbreak but the next day it came back! I am now freaking out, it's been about 5 almost 6 months since I last had sex with him.
Avatar f tn but (lets say he is having sex with multiple partners and picks up a different strain of HPV... he could then infect you with that new strain)... Not to say he is just wanted to give you an example. You can still have sex is it not going to change anything you both probably have both types as you've had unprotected sex for a year... I have learned that most HPV infections will clear themselfs with in two years.
Avatar m tn I am facing a serious problem regarding erection. Whenever I try to have sex with my girlfriend I get orgasm (discharge semen) before getting erection. This thing really embarrasses me. If I do not go for P to V sex I can save myself from orgasm while doing anything else in sex. But whenever I start rubbing my penis (without erection) I got orgasm before getting erection. Because of this problem I could not enter my penis into my girlfriend’s vagina.
697574 tn?1273955747 You're willingly sleeping in the same bed and are wondering if sex is OK? If it weren't, the thing to do is not sleep in the same bed. Given that you are sure you aren't at risk of pregnancy, and that you both know that the relationship is coming to its end, and that neither of you is trying to make the sex rekindle the relationship, it doesn't seem like sex will impact anything if you have it or if you don't.
Avatar m tn We did not have sex / unprotected sex except maybe once a month or two months due to long distance relationship. We got married at the beginning of May and as newlyweds, engaged in quite a bit of sexual activity (unprotected since I thought prior testing showed no stds after sex with him / therefore he was clear).
Avatar m tn I'm a 29yo male who has many issues with having a relationship. One of the main issues is that i'm physically attracted to men, and have 'experimented' with a male friend during my school days, and thoroughly enjoyed it. But i'm not interested in having a relationship of any sort with them. When i hit puberty, and hormones consumed me, i was sexually attracted to girls and i remember going to a school disco and staring at a girl in my year, thinking she was beautiful.
Avatar f tn s me I feel awful for making him have to deal with this, forcing on him a reminder of my past life. Our relationship has been built around our sex life, it's how we talk best and it's going to change it so much. I don't know how to deal with that. I feel awful that if I haven't already I could infect him and the guilt is just killing me.
Avatar f tn t really have sex that often during that time. We had intercourse maybe once a year and also other sexual activity was pretty rare. About 1,5 ago all the symptoms of Vulvar vestibulitis went away. My husband and I started having sex again. My husband has always claimed that during that time he has always been faithfull to me and that he made a decision long time ago to be with me even when I had Vulvar vestibulitis. But ofcourse now I'm doubting everything.
Avatar f tn I'm 21 years old and I've never had intercourse before. My fiance is about 6'2 and I'm 5'11. We've been in a relationship for a long time. Sometimes when we're making out, he fingers me and we've had oral (but I've never had an orgasm). We wanted to wait until marriage before having intercourse and next week is the big day.
Avatar f tn Of course the stress of a new baby causes some friction, but at the end of the day, having a family is such a blessing!
Avatar f tn This is something that we were having problems with even before we stopped having sex but it feels like not having sex might have made it worse. He always does it late night or early morning in that bathroom and he says its always a constant battle in his head about if he needs it or not. Its tearing us apart and it makes it hard for me to kiss him or be near him after i know what he was just doing.
Avatar f tn re having a boy. He already told her that he wants a DNA test. There are many things that seem suspicious to me...making me think that she's not pregnant, but I'm also preparing myself in case she really is.
Avatar f tn Who all has felt a change in your man feeling distant or whatever. I try to even get dressed up to get his attention buy I feel I am getting no where . My baby is two months so we can have sex buy he don't try. I put on a sexy outfit for bed and he did tell me I looked sexy and we did have sex . He just don't realize how hard it can be to dress up when I'm trying to get use to having a baby and maintaining a house. I just feel depressed!
Avatar n tn She is more intelligent, interesting, warm, creative, principled, ambitious, passionate and she believes that sex is an important part of the relationship, as do I. She is in a similar situation, but has been in it longer so it is worse for her. We have not had sex, and will not as long as we are with our partners, but we do talk and sometimes kiss. Talking to this new girl makes me want to leave my girlfriend and not want to enter a passionless, sexless marriage with her.
Avatar m tn If you aren’t EVER having erections, see your physician for a check-up, because you might have a medical condition that’s interfering. Good luck! Dr.
Avatar f tn Did he get his STD while he was in a relationship with you, or before? If you had a normal sex life before the scare, and then nothing afterward, i might then deduce that he was getting sex elsewhere. I don't know why people stay in relationships unhappily and have sex elsewhere, but honestly given these circumstances, i might conclude that's what was happening.
Avatar f tn Hi All, I'm in a relationship with an awesome man. Just recently I found out that my annual Pap came back and I am positive for HPV High Risk. I had an exam done so the Dr can check my cervix . He said he didn't see any cancerous cells. Thank God. He said make an appt for my annual in 12months. Knowing that is a good sign. I told my partner about my pap report and we are both freaked out!
170597 tn?1204052755 (1) I am planning on having condom protected vaginal sex only. Is that a risk, if condom stay intact all the time? (2) If I switch positions during sex, do I need to switch condoms? (3) Does it matter what kind of condoms do I use? I prefer latex. (4) Is Deep Kissing a risk? Assuming gum disease etc. (5) Completely off-topic question. Does swollen lymph node have hair growing out of them? OR is it ingrown hairfollicle?
Avatar n tn Im 19 years old and I have had alot of sex before in my past..I used to be able to have sex for hours and hours everyday and I could get hard really easy..but the past 5 or 6 months its like I can't even get it up..I'm experienced, and I have been having sex since I was 16 so its not like im nervous or anything..I just don't understand..I get hard when I am masterbating..But when im with my girlfriend the only way I can get hard is from oral pleasure..
Avatar n tn If you notice unusual itching, peeling and loss of the epidermal layers of the skin in either location, rule out staph first before assuming that masturbation is safe sex. Otherwise, use a condom.
Avatar f tn "Because i told his mom about the issue and he was approached he got angry with me saying i don't trust him. But i don't want to leave him too what do i do"..............I think the relationship is pretty much done after this happened. Wasn't a great idea to talk with his mother about your relationship issues. That's pretty much a "never do" in a relationship. "After having sex and i left things began to change and we started having problems."....