only to find out that her cancer is
estrogen postive and probably caused or
in some part aided
in the growth of her masses.
This is a very touchy subject on this forum, and as much as I love and adore Mary, she and I are on opposite sides on this one. Flashes are horrid, I will agree that I have had a really tough time with them as well as the other symptoms of menopause....but, you know what....I am alive.
Gather all the facts you can....best of luck.