Hang in there, you may have to try a few meds + have you considered getting treatment for
the menapusal symptoms, horminal or whatever?
Try to walk away from your children
or just ignore. My son is 18 and i still have to tell him to wipe his mouth after eating, LOL, they could drive you mad, but dont get mad. You are causing yourself regret.
Run into the bedroom and thump a pillow, try to get a break. Wash your face in the bathroom.