So I broke up with my boyfriend after a somewhat rocky seven year relationship. The guy didnt treat me great. I often heard (mostly in rocky times) "your a ****** joke" and well he could yell for hours. Just couldnt calm down. There were lost of trust issues, compatibility issues but we were crazy about each other. We had so much history. So I persevered through the years with a positive outlook that has caused me palpitations and constant anxiety about the future.
I had a break up approx 6 weeks ago. I thought this was the gal i was going to marry. we were together for 2 years, at times it was on/off but never truly off. This time it is off! I know she has found someone else and i have not. I can not seem to shake the feelings of missing her, at times it really hurts. I have been divorced for 12 years. My kids are 18, 17 and 15. Their mother has quite a few mental challenges.
it was perfect from both sides however due to deadlines I havent been round to much for a month but there over next week. then she just said pretty much sick of the texting, its just become forced, even when were out in public its not great cuz we dont have enough alone time whereas i didnt think any of the above.. then by text was given the "break" messge..
Question, how would y'all feel if the female that you stressed to your man that you didn't like because they once dated gave him some clothes for the baby on top of that you find old highschool love letters which he refuse to get rid of. That's my current situation and I hate that he don't see my issue with it all.....
The extent of the relationship can cause a break up to be short and sweet. And some people have a hard time dealing with other people's emotions and just break it off abruptly and quickly to deal with as little of that as possible.
Going through a difficult time is a test to a relationship. Very many will NOT survive a tough time. Not all relationships are meant to last and we date to learn these things about people. Maybe if someone is very emotional, depressed, etc.
Hi there, So, you are having a baby with him, is that right? Are you both teenagers? Lots of big things coming your way very soon. Are you living with his parents too or are you are with yours and he's with his? Sorry for all the questions, I'm just trying to understand.
Do you have any support from your own family?
On the surface, I think it is smart to expect certain things out of the father of our children.
Being attracted to other people is not something to break up over. Have you never looked at another guy while in a relationship? The point is that he's not acting on these things. I know one thing that helps my husband I is talking about our fantisies or attractions. The hubs has a weird thing for redheads so once in a while I'll buy a box of washout hair dye to surprise him. The point is give him some slack he's normal, it doesn't mean he's cheating or will cheat.
Well I am entering my first year in college and my girlfriend is doing the same thing. We are going to schools 6 hours apart and she is playing a sport there. We've been dating for 5 months but we've been best friends forever. I know everything about her as she does of me, we have actual life conversations and stuff. It's not like a normal highschool relationship. When we agreed to start dating, I was adamant on no long distance relationship.
People are not good partners usually so soon after a relationship. And very often, they do not end up long term with their rebound relationship person. I really can't explain why other than to say that they get with someone quickly without doing as much work as usual in picking them (no offense to you), they still have hang ups and baggage from the divorce, etc. and it just often doesn't work.
Last, he is going out with someone else.
He told me that he still had feelings for her and that he was trying to get with her during our break up. I took a break from him after I found all of that out and to decide whether or not I wanted to stay with him. When I met up with him after the little break he told me that he doesn't actually have feelings for her, but he never had closure from the way everything ended with them so he thought he was feeling something for her but realized that she's not what he wants.
If it was a relationship of any length, there are sitcom plots about the email/text break up. I do think that a proper break off is appropriate if he still thinks they are a couple and they had any type of committed relationship. Especially since she's already seeing someone new.
I do, however, totally agree about making it short and sweet.
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