ps... I had a life threatening pnumonia and my body began to shut down. Show lots of love and patience and just give her time.
So I broke up with my boyfriend after a somewhat rocky seven year relationship. The guy didnt treat me great. I often heard (mostly in rocky times) "your a ****** joke" and well he could yell for hours. Just couldnt calm down. There were lost of trust issues, compatibility issues but we were crazy about each other. We had so much history. So I persevered through the years with a positive outlook that has caused me palpitations and constant anxiety about the future.
Girlfriend out of the blue decides a 4 day break would do us some good as we havent been able to see much of each other lately(which will change in a week,) so we just been texting really instead. she said she needs a break from it will us good,
what do you make of that.. is it likely to be over so theres more than im being told?
Being attracted to other people is not something to break up over. Have you never looked at another guy while in a relationship? The point is that he's not acting on these things. I know one thing that helps my husband I is talking about our fantisies or attractions. The hubs has a weird thing for redheads so once in a while I'll buy a box of washout hair dye to surprise him. The point is give him some slack he's normal, it doesn't mean he's cheating or will cheat.
Hi there, So, you are having a baby with him, is that right? Are you both teenagers? Lots of big things coming your way very soon. Are you living with his parents too or are you are with yours and he's with his? Sorry for all the questions, I'm just trying to understand.
Do you have any support from your own family?
On the surface, I think it is smart to expect certain things out of the father of our children.
The extent of the relationship can cause a break up to be short and sweet. And some people have a hard time dealing with other people's emotions and just break it off abruptly and quickly to deal with as little of that as possible.
Going through a difficult time is a test to a relationship. Very many will NOT survive a tough time. Not all relationships are meant to last and we date to learn these things about people. Maybe if someone is very emotional, depressed, etc.
This relationship is not only dysfunctional, but effecting you physically, mentally and emotionally. I understand you don't want to hurt him, but it's important to be honest with him and get you back to a better place in your life. Tell him that unfortunately, the relaitonship is not working out for you and that you no longer want to be in an exclusive or committed relationship at this point in time.
If it was a relationship of any length, there are sitcom plots about the email/text break up. I do think that a proper break off is appropriate if he still thinks they are a couple and they had any type of committed relationship. Especially since she's already seeing someone new.
I do, however, totally agree about making it short and sweet.
People are not good partners usually so soon after a relationship. And very often, they do not end up long term with their rebound relationship person. I really can't explain why other than to say that they get with someone quickly without doing as much work as usual in picking them (no offense to you), they still have hang ups and baggage from the divorce, etc. and it just often doesn't work.
Last, he is going out with someone else.
Well I am entering my first year in college and my girlfriend is doing the same thing. We are going to schools 6 hours apart and she is playing a sport there. We've been dating for 5 months but we've been best friends forever. I know everything about her as she does of me, we have actual life conversations and stuff. It's not like a normal highschool relationship. When we agreed to start dating, I was adamant on no long distance relationship.
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