I had a long talk with her today and explained that while we will again have a good relationship, that it will never be the same as it was and that it was okay
for it to be different because she is growing
up and is a different person then the little kid that I had learned to relate with before. It caused her to cry. I explained to her how it made me feel that she would lie to me like that and that right or wrong, all feelings are valid.