Hi there, So, you are having a baby with him, is that right? Are you both teenagers? Lots of big things coming your way very soon. Are you living with his parents too or are you are with yours and he's with his? Sorry for all the questions, I'm just trying to understand.
Do you have any support from your own family?
On the surface, I think it is smart to expect certain things out of the father of our children.
I had a break up approx 6 weeks ago. I thought this was the gal i was going to marry. we were together for 2 years, at times it was on/off but never truly off. This time it is off! I know she has found someone else and i have not. I can not seem to shake the feelings of missing her, at times it really hurts. I have been divorced for 12 years. My kids are 18, 17 and 15. Their mother has quite a few mental challenges.
They did this for a few years as the kids grew up. The kids had the benefit of always sleeping in their own bed, and being with each parent every day, and the parents saw them every day but didn't have to live together.
Don't continue to model an abusive / acquiescing pattern for the kids, they will carry this and not know how to behave in a relationship as adults. You need to break the chain so they won't be stuck in their own lives.
U dont want another woman to come into his life and be jealous of your children or get mad that u will need to communicate with him about ur child if u ever break up. So dont be that one.
My ex-boyfriend and I were together for about 1.5 years. It was an amazing relationship full of love, communication, and mutual respect and support. We ended up splitting because of some issues related to his kids (whom I never met, because they were not open to meeting someone new, as their parents were newly divorced).
My sister and I had different fathers and no one told her until she was like 18 and she could care less. As long as her dad was her father she really didn't care. I love my father for loving me and not making a big deal about me not being his biological child.it takes a special kinda man to love and take care of a child that's not his own and you don't wanna lose that.
I'm sorry ;( my situation always goes more like: I get really frustrated and tell him I don't want to be with him or I want to have a little time off from each other and his reply is usually NO lol he won't let me break up with him hahaha, and he's always like no we're gonna make this work.
Avery close friend told me the reason i have not left is because i have low self esteem,,she also thinks that over the years my husband created it ,,i visit my parents recently who helped me get out of my financial rut my husband put us in when the affair happened,,and told me they helped me and the kids it is not for him,,who did this to us,,my mom says i looked tired and unhappy,,and i lost weight ,,im weighing now 110 pounds,,and it looks terrible on me,,she says i look boney,,it hurt me to h
Alot has happened in that month like a break up with his dad! Sad to think he will probably be my only child and it seems like he is growing so quickly already! Will cherish every single moment I have with my son! Love him so much! Any other single mummas out there that have found Mr. Right after having a child already and having a break up! just feel like it will be me and my little man forever now!
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