Hi there, So, you are having a baby with him, is that right? Are you both teenagers? Lots of big things coming your way very soon. Are you living with his parents too or are you are with yours and he's with his? Sorry for all the questions, I'm just trying to understand.
Do you have any support from your own family?
On the surface, I think it is smart to expect certain things out of the father of our children.
I had a break up approx 6 weeks ago. I thought this was the gal i was going to marry. we were together for 2 years, at times it was on/off but never truly off. This time it is off! I know she has found someone else and i have not. I can not seem to shake the feelings of missing her, at times it really hurts. I have been divorced for 12 years. My kids are 18, 17 and 15. Their mother has quite a few mental challenges.
broke up with my girlfriend 2 months ago. she has had a physical ailment for 20 months and finally had surgery about 3 months ago.she says a relatinship is something that she doesnt want or cant handle right now.she says she still loves me, thinks about me and misses me. just wondering what all of this means and what is the best thing for myself.i still love her dearly and we are still in communication fairly frequently and know she is not into anyone else or anything like that.
So I broke up with my boyfriend after a somewhat rocky seven year relationship. The guy didnt treat me great. I often heard (mostly in rocky times) "your a ****** joke" and well he could yell for hours. Just couldnt calm down. There were lost of trust issues, compatibility issues but we were crazy about each other. We had so much history. So I persevered through the years with a positive outlook that has caused me palpitations and constant anxiety about the future.
My ex-boyfriend and I were together for about 1.5 years. It was an amazing relationship full of love, communication, and mutual respect and support. We ended up splitting because of some issues related to his kids (whom I never met, because they were not open to meeting someone new, as their parents were newly divorced).
So i posted a little while ago, about having a boyfriend who talks down to me constantly. Well I finaly got up the courage and broke up with him. I tried to act like an adult, and not put the blame on him for anything in particular. I just told him I wasnt happy, and i think its because we dont see things the same way anymore. He yelled a bunch and told me he never wanted to hear from me again. Which I suppose is for the best. I just need some advice on moving on, some inpsirational words.
Will my newborn have bonding issues later on because her dad barely spends time with her (an hour a day max)? And I usually ask him to hold her while I get a little break and it's usually for an hour the longest while I nap or eat or shower. I'm worried he's not spending enough time or cares enough :( why is it that I'm worried and feel like a bad mother when I'm not holding my baby yet my husband is indifferent?
I started dating a guy that I had known for a while and it finally snapped in babydaddys head when he saw my boyfriend holding the baby and our son was laughing with him and when baby daddy would carry him all he would do was cry since he never spent time with him. After that he picked him up 3 days a week and spent everyday with him. It ended up not working out with the guy I was with just because we were more of friends.
This is baby number 2 for us, we have a 5 year old. I'm 30 weeks and just recently she has been acting up lately, she has been talking like a baby with me and her dad and her grandparents. She even wants us to hold her like a baby, even sits on the couching sayi g "can someone hug me" lol.
I can relate to you, my son is 16 months and I'm due October 20th as well with another little boy and my son wakes up for up to three bottles a night sometimes it's crazy, im also in a tough living situation so my kids will be in the same bedroom... but I've recently asked other mommies with kids the same age and they told me to slowly cut off the bottle and try a cup or to fill it up with water or also to make them confortable and try a toddler bed ...
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