My ex-boyfriend and I were together for about 1.5 years. It was an amazing relationship full of love, communication, and mutual respect and support. We ended up splitting because of some issues related to his kids (whom I never met, because they were not open to meeting someone new, as their parents were newly divorced).
Hi there, So, you are having a baby with him, is that right? Are you both teenagers? Lots of big things coming your way very soon. Are you living with his parents too or are you are with yours and he's with his? Sorry for all the questions, I'm just trying to understand.
Do you have any support from your own family?
On the surface, I think it is smart to expect certain things out of the father of our children.
My five year old is autistic except its hard to be active with him because of being prego and having his 2yr old brother to look after too. I think the pains youre getting are telling you to take a break. Not sure how far along you are but I know my boy is heavy lol. So I cant pick him up as much but he knows theres a "baby in mommy's tummy". Though he may not fully understand.
Have you talked to your son at all about the baby yet?
The quickest way to get over a break up is to make sure you have zero contact with that individual. That means, no looking at their photos, reading their letters/emails/texts that you've saved, no trips down memory lane of all the fond memories you shared. Do you best to avoid that person and not run into them or be at places you know they are going to be. Once you've done that, start spending time with friends, or make new ones. Get yourself out there and start dating casually.
I don't know anything about your gf, but I know when I went through major surgery I pushed a lot of people away. My thought process on it was that I didn't want to cause them pain to have to see and deal with me when I had to go through with it all. Which is pretty stupid, but that was the idea I had. Maybe she could be in that mind frame, so giving her some time can help. After the ordeal is over things can go back to how it was before.
I know how you feel. It seems like this feeling will never go away and you cannot imagine yourself with someone else...what a bleak, depressing and dangerous feeling.
But please remember there is hope.
I know it's an old cliche but time really does heal...when I left my husband after 16 yrs. I was a mess. I missed my "old life" so much and I truly felt like there was no light at the end of the tunnel.
So I broke up with my boyfriend after a somewhat rocky seven year relationship. The guy didnt treat me great. I often heard (mostly in rocky times) "your a ****** joke" and well he could yell for hours. Just couldnt calm down. There were lost of trust issues, compatibility issues but we were crazy about each other. We had so much history. So I persevered through the years with a positive outlook that has caused me palpitations and constant anxiety about the future.
Thank you, Your right it is her problem if she doesn't accept it. I wish I could wait till I have the baby to say anything to her, but I'm seeing her tonight. She wanted to spend time with her 3 granddaughters for the first time in 6 months or more. I don't even want to let her, but the spouse has already confirmed it. I've already told myself if she is rude in anyway at all I'm taking my girls home with me and she doesn't have to be apart of there life or the baby.
So i posted a little while ago, about having a boyfriend who talks down to me constantly. Well I finaly got up the courage and broke up with him. I tried to act like an adult, and not put the blame on him for anything in particular. I just told him I wasnt happy, and i think its because we dont see things the same way anymore. He yelled a bunch and told me he never wanted to hear from me again. Which I suppose is for the best. I just need some advice on moving on, some inpsirational words.
i didnt have a problem with this but because he lived with his parents i thought he would prefer coming to mine... anyway everyrime i went to his we had to sit and have dinner with his parents then sit with them or go up to his bedroom like teenagers.... more arguments started over petty things. Everytime we argued he would not talk to me for days giving me silent treatments. Or saying it was over. The last arguement caused him to end us for good. I was heart broken.
Yea I don't think mine is going to break because I'm already started dilating and I thought your water is close to break before you start dilating But idk
Am 5 weeks and I'm only 19 in college and advice how to cope with this, I didn't want kids until I was 30, but I'm happy with my blessing
I want to 2nd what jfmoc said. I'm pretty sure its not PAWS its that your still detoxing. 27 fays is fantastic and I totally think you are nearing the end of most of it but I came off of suboxone and it took me a good 5-6 weeks to make a legitimate sentence much less get back to being a mother, wife, employee, etc....
I can't stress enough that aftercare will help with the mental aspect b,c quite honestly, I felt like I was going insane!!!! Also, give yourself a break....
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