So.... my husband's parents are hoarders and I've never been to their house but our daughter has. She's 3 years old. We have a little boy on the way and I just don't know if I want my kids going over there especially if I'm not allowed to.. Idk how bad the situation is and I know my husband is embarrassed. I've never talked to my in laws about it. They make me uncomfortable as is. I have been distant from them for the last couple months.
Was watching one of those sort of horridly-fascinating shows last night on TV that is about hoarders, except this one is about pet hoarders. They visited a couple's house who had 24 cats. The vet who was talking to the couple and she went into the room where the catboxes were, and commented on the smell, and she had handheld meter that she set down on the floor. It measured ammonia in the air.
I went into my doctor today because I was experiencing some pretty nasty cramps/discomfort. He listened to the baby and had me explain what was going on. It was just sharp pains in my lower abdomin and they would come in waves. Nothing regular but they would build up. He believes they could just be Braxton Kicks, but has me on watch. I'm not aloud to do a whole lot, like picking my son up, painting, walking for over 45 minutes, excercising. It's just a bummer.
m watching the buisness of being born on Netflix. And I think everyone should be shown this at like 15 weeks along. Any ladies who have Netflix and havnt seen it should definitely invest the time.
No, they aren't mine. My hubby is their uncle. I'm pregnant with my first and going to use cloth diapers. They've told me they won't use them if they watch her. I want to scream at them, "she's my daughter and I am making all decisions. If you don't like it then fu ck off!" They constantly tell me that I will hate cloth diapers. My niece is in them. I watch her 3x a week. If I didn't like them my sister would let me use disposable on her.
So my husband has lived in our house for 15 year and has had two women live here before me! They left all their stuff here underwear beds clothes shoes and I don't want to go through their clothes I just want to throw them I. A dumpster or burn them Andy husband is insulting me bc he wants me to go through wash and sell this **** that is rotting away!!
I know exactly how you feel. The only rooms that aren't messy at my place are the bathrooms & the babys room lol! I work full time & when i get home I'm like why bother?.. Hopefully i get a day or two cleaning spurt & get it done!
My psychiatrist and psychotherapist are aware of this problem, and I am on a medication for it to no avail. Other than the medication, we never seem able to really get down and address the issue.
I am considering practicing self-hypnosis to see if maybe I can change my thought pattern. Otherwise I am feeling pretty helpless and frustrated.
I want to get beyond this and live a healthy lifestyle. No groups have been suggested to me or offered. I feel out in left field all alone.
re in too deep and need some help. It talks about how during pregnancy there is so much focus on labor and delivery, but not very much focus on what happens after.
Wow, never heard of the Ov watch. Please keep us updated on how it works. I am very curious to know what you're experience is.
id stop the grapefruit and lemon juice to be on the safe side....BTW....some drug reactions with grafefruit and antidepreeants are toxic too....
Dont watch modern marvels top 10 snack foods if youre pregnant and craving!!! Hummus, beef jerky, corn dogs, fried twinkies, and its only halfway through! Lol the tortuuuure.
Holy cow of course this relationship doesn't feel good. That feeling is your inner voice telling you to leave--so listen! A hoarder experiences a great amount of anxiety when faced with the decision to throw something away. They are usually very sentimental persons, and like to keep everything to hold on the memory. Persons who are slobs are just plain lazy and can't be bothered to clean up or throw anything out. Although I think that a lot of hoarders are slobs in some ways as well.
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