I have an 11 year old Aspie daugther--same IQ and issues. She does like video
games, but spends most of her time
online, endlessly researching whatever interests her at the moment. Until you live with an Aspie, you don't understand that you cannot force them to do anything they don't want to do, and they do not like things that "typical" kids their age do. I understand leaving the public school to homeschool. I homeschooled for 4 years.