and will see what we can do. Yes it is sad. We also separated other cats. We are not cat hoarders, just to be clear. We are now just going to foster a mama cat and her kittens. She had them next door and then moved them to our yard. She seemed to be an indoor cat at one time (that will be another question separate). Anyway, we let them live in the basement. The kittens are starting to get used to coming around us a little. They are not older than 7 weeks probably.
So.... my husband's parents are hoarders and I've never been to their house but our daughter has. She's 3 years old. We have a little boy on the way and I just don't know if I want my kids going over there especially if I'm not allowed to.. Idk how bad the situation is and I know my husband is embarrassed. I've never talked to my in laws about it. They make me uncomfortable as is. I have been distant from them for the last couple months.
I can only sympathize with you because I am going through the same thing. I have hurt a lot a people, I am a liar, a cheat, and I have more skeletons in my closet that I will ever know. I am trying my best to change it all because I know this is a major part of my depression and anxiety. I've been told that one must forgive himself/herself to get any rest over it. I am trying my best.
The Dr told him that he needed to think of ways one might kill the skeletons and to draw pictures of these and put them in a box under the bed so he will have them in his dreams, he also encouraged him to rehearse how he is going to kill the skeletons before going to sleep each night. Is this the right kind of therapy to be teaching a 5 year old? if this works in his dreams will it work for him in real life for people or things that scare him? to draw pictures of killing.
Take her to the vet and have an abdominal x ray done. Puppy skeletons will show up on the x ray if she is pregnant. I used to work for a vet, and when we did these xrays, it was always fun to count the little heads to see how many pups there were.
You can ask your OB, most of them do it but you'll most likely have to pay. Mine does them for free. But if you have to pay, honestly id wait a few more weeks! So you can see them when he's chunkier and actually looks human haha ^_^ they look like little skeletons around that time!
But me I would just go to a family members and stay there for a bit. Hoarders have a weird attachment to their items.
I know exactly how you feel. The only rooms that aren't messy at my place are the bathrooms & the babys room lol! I work full time & when i get home I'm like why bother?.. Hopefully i get a day or two cleaning spurt & get it done!
No groups have been suggested to me or offered. I feel out in left field all alone. Are there any hoarders in this company, and what are they doing to deal with it?
I'm kinda in the same position. I don't blame my husband though. I had a lot of skeletons in my closet before we got married that recently came out now. We're in a tough position but all I can do is say pray about it.i constantly pray about it and even though things aren't happening as fast as I want them, I do see favor and have faith we'll be back right.
I looked at my walls and saw almost like halloween decorations skeletons and pumpkins.. I looked up and saw a little boy that looked like the boy from "the ring" staring at me. This has happend before several times when I was little and realized turning on my lamp would make it disappear.
When I was little about 6-7 I remember sleeping with my little sister in her bed and woke up pretty early.
I totally understand your concerns my friend but trust me NOTHING is more important than your help like you I just had to stop caring about what other people thought about me and I had to focus on getting myself better. You are the most important aspect in all this if people want to judge let them it's on thier sholders. Everyone has skeletons in there closet but you are freeing yourself by being on here and posting.
And know you are not alone at all, everyone has skeletons in their closet, yet they can stay there, probably for the best.....
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