I am a bisexual 60 y/
o male, average weight for my height. Several years ago, I began having frequent/urgent urinations associated with enlarged prostate. My urologist prescribed Ditropan, which I took for about a year, which helped at first. Flomax was added the following year, which again worked for awhile, but the symptoms returned after 6 months or so. The Flomax caused retrograde ejaculation, which bothered me because in the past, I had always shot a fairly substantial load when I ***.