In children, many symptoms overlap and are common among a great number of diagnoses (including Bipolar, SID,
ADHD, normal development,
non-verbal learning disability, and so on).
2. Is it possible that they are recommending these diagnoses as part of their "differential diagnosis" (aka - trying to figure out just what is going on)?
As a therapist, and parent first, I would be quite cautious about how to take this news.