There are lots and lots of places that offer low-cost
counseling based on income to those with no insurance
Your wife has said get over it. I have said get over it. Clearly, that's not working, so its time to get some counseling. We don't even think you had sex, and I think deep down inside, you don't think you had sex. Hell, the woman says you didn't have sex, and as I said before, women would be all over that, especially a woman you had some kind of relationship with at some point.