I feel sorry
for you, my friend. If your government is oppressive of gay couples, I can only imagine the plight of gay men. First of all, it is not abnormal and it is 100% natural to be gay. Second, since you are now married, try different positions which will make her more "manly", like reverse cowgirl and doggie style. Also, if she shaves her legs, tell her to not do so, that will make the skin seem more rough. Finally, if she shaves her vagina, tell her not to.