Yes, I can suggest a website called MpWH, which is a site
for people with
herpes to talk to others who have
herpes, some date, some don't. There is also a herpes support group on this website. Some larger cities have in person support groups, and you could find out more about them through ASAHSTD.org.
I hope at some point you are able to come off Valtrex and get an accurate antibody test. It will help you get clarity, one way or the other.