painful sex my husband

For the last two weeks, after having sex, my husband's penis swells and get red. He says that sex is somewhat uncomfortable to painful. The swelling stays for almost 24 hours and it can get quite painful. Any suggestions?

I'm only 9 weeks and when me and my husband have sex ever since I found out I was pregnant when he's in me I get a very sharp pain inside my vagina. I'm not sure if this is normal or not. I need help. I hope its not hurting the baby..

Every time my husband and I try to have sex it almost brings me to tears. I feel like a virgin x's20. Does anyone else have this problem?

I'm 33 weeks pregnant with my first baby and I have stabbing pain when my husband and I are having sex...Is this normal? I asked my Dr and she said..just don't have sex..but I'm wondering if it might mean there's something wrong down there...no uti,or infections Dr checked..

I love my husband and I really wanna have sex again, but I am finding it hurts every time we try, so I loose interest very fast. I don't know what to do. I feel bad that I am letting both him and myself down. Anyone else experiencing anything like this?

My husband and I have been having sex very often. After like 3 or four times of having very rough sex my vagina becomes very painful. Thursday this had happened to me and now it is monday and I am still unable to have sex because it is swollen and hurts to even put the head in. Any advice on why it is like this?

whenever i n my husband have sex,we begin really nice but towards the end he gets rough n thrusts really hard n deep which is very painful..n when i tell him so he doesnt care much n continues till he is done.Besides this, he wants to have sex almost 4- 6 times a day,which i think is crazy cos i have a job plus gotta take care of the house too..wht can i do...

37+4 days and I heard sex can help JumpStart labor but my husband and I tried last night and it was extremely painful it literally felt like he was stabbing me with a knife and the feeling after was painful too..has anybody else experienced this as well?

i am 9wks along my pregnancy and i have painful sex and my vagina burns afterwards for a long period. when i start having sex with my husband i actually want him to stop. why is this happening? i am faithful to my husbabd and have never had another.

Hi Chelsea. I'm so sorry what you're going through and have went through. I can understand somewhat. I was molested from the age of 12 till I was 16. I never told anyone and one day I realized I was "happy' with trying to kill myself. I became a cutter. I know the whole " take away the pain on the inside by causing pain on the outside" and that is absolutely true. I really felt that way.

When me and my fiance have sex, these past couple times its hurt...is that normal?

I'm currently 11 weeks pregnant and my husband and I had sex for the first time in a month (long distance), anyways it was incredibly painful after to the point where I felt swollen and tender down there. This has never happened before just recently all last week I was just so sore. Has anyone else had any pain or soreness with sex while pregnant? Not sure if I should be concerned or not..

My husband and I have had a very limmited sex life for about two years and when we try to have sex I feel like I am being ripped on the back part of my vigina. We never had this problem before until after we had our son, however i didnt have a vaginal birth. What could be causing this problem?

I miscarried my first at 9 wks and this time around my placenta tore at 11 wks. Both times my husband and i had sex in the first trimester. If it hurts dont do it. We havent had sex in probably a month or so, since i was 10 weeks and I'm going on 16wks. It ***** but, if it means not risking your babies life then it's a worthy sacrifice. Talk to your OB also. Wish you the best!!!!!!

i have been having braxton hicks contractions for about two weeks now, and tonight i was feeling very cramped and having a ton of pressure, over the last few weeks we would have sex when that happened because a friend told us it would help calm and relax the muscles that were most likely the root of the problem, however a few minutes into the sex i because very very open down there and my husband said it felt like water pouring down over him(sorry for the details) and not a creamy or egg white l

I recently had a miscarriage, (2 weeks ago) I know that after a 2 weeks period you may resume sexual intercourse, my question is, we have had sex twice. The first time didn't bother me, and now after our second time doing it after the miscarriage, I am feeling pain in my abdomen. During sex, it was slightly painful when he penetrated all the way in, but I ignored it. Now today, I am in pain when I sit down or walk. Not excruciating pain or anything, but it's definitely uncomfortable.

Lol. I'm doing it only to help with my get my labour going . I am almost 39 weeks and no signs yet. I am scared that it is so small they will have to offer c section.

The only time ur hurt or burned for me was towards the 12 week an that's cuz I had a yeast infection it was extremely painful but then it went away now all I want is sex but my husband thinks it's weird cuz there's a baby in there :(

I'm 19 weeks pregnant and every time my husband and I have sex it feels as though the entrance to my vagina is raw. We're using lube but it still feels painful, like there's too much friction. Does anyone have any suggestions or know if this is normal? I'm not itchy, or sore at other times so I don't think it's thrush.

I had suffered a miscarriage a little over 6 yrs ago before I met my DH. I suffered from painful sex, periods etc. I however was lucky enough to have my son. After he was 7 months old went in for a laparos. and was diagnosed with mild/moderate endometriosis. It took less amount of time to conceive my son than it is ttc again with the second. The endo caused my periods to disappear meaning no ovulation. We have been ttc for 2 yrs next month.

I'm 14 weeks tomorrow. Last night my husband wanted to have sex and I did too but for some reason it's like my vaginal has swelled closed. It was super super painful and very uncomfortable..anyone else experience this? It wasn't like this last week?

Hi ladies! I am 33 weeks pregnant and for the last couple of weeks having sex with my husband has been pretty painful. I can't get into it like how I used to and he feels too big for me like if he's tearing me. This is strange to me because usually sex felt great up until now. Also my sex drive is pretty much gone I'm never in the mood for it. Anyone else going through this? Wanted to see if it's normal, Thanks!

Yea I can understand that. My husband can always sence tho when I'm not into sex and he will say "Toni, I don't want no pity sex". In my mind I'm thinking well stop asking. And this pregnancy, only makes my drive decrease. I just discovered yest that I have a Y.I so I'm very uncomfortable. I keep him informed but sometimes :( I just think he doesn't care n he just wants to get one off.

So now everytime my husband and I have sex my vagina starts to hurt really bad. Tonight I'm sitting on ice. Have any other ladies had this?

It is documented that the outbreaks are less frequent than that of HSV 2, but it seems that each time I have sex with my husband I feel tighter and sore afterwards and will regularly get vaginal sores developing. Is there anything I can do to minimize this discomfort or do I have to live with the fear that each time I am sexually intimate with my husband I will have to suffer the above pain.

Im 37 weeks ... my husband is driving me crazy...I ppromised him sex everyday from 37 weeks...now im 37 weeks but I feel ill...he is still insisting on my promise of sex everyday...he driving me crazy...what should I do?

Anyone else have orgasms that dont feel good? Im 8 weeks and ftm and I don't even want to try to have sex with my husband because even when he gets me off the orgasm doesn't feel that good. Its like when my uterus contracts at the orgasm there is pain. Ugh so annoying and feel bad for my husband who's all over me.

m 21 and have been married 4 nearly 2yrs. I have nevvvver felt orgasm with my husband he rubs his penis on me 4 a while then orders me to get into wateva position he desires then he ejaculates tooo fast like within three min.s i feel terrible cos i have 2 masturbate while being married... And now i have a baby girl which makes it worse 4 me 2 accept masturbating... After delivery i kinda got this phobia from sex incase i get pregnant again...

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