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I'm 19, sex with my partner is incredibly painful. It is as though I just get tighter and tighter the more he tried to go in, it's as though the skin is trying to stretch but was tearing instead, and it ached and stung afterwards as well. It makes sex impossible because of the pain, can anyone help me??
Sex is very painful at the minute, I've been to see all medical professionals see if I can get some help but nothing is getting sorted, I've been for externals, internals, swabs, tests, no one can find anything wrong, it's quite frustrating and me and my partner are frustrated to say the least.
m just going to have to come to terms with the fact that penetrative sex is painful, so I should just stick to oral sex and mutual masturbation. I find this to be an unsatisfactory answer. I have also been told to "learn how to have pain free sex," with no further explanation.
I do have vaginal endo, I had an exam to see if the tendons around my vagina have hardened, which is the most common cause of this type of pain. As it turns out they have not hardened or become tight.
My husband and I have been TTC for about 2 years now. Recently I went to my obgyn and had some blood work and other tests done. She said everything came back normal and I just need to relax and stop trying. What are some things that have worked for any of you to relax? I'm just having a hard time not thinking about it when it's all we've wanted for so long. Any advice would help!
I ALSO DURING MY PERIOD PASS FIST SIZE CLOTS THEY ARE ALSO PAINFUL WHEN THEY COME OUT. SOME TIMES SEX IS REALLY PAINFUL ALSO. WHAT SHOULD I DO? THERE IS OVARIN CANCER ON MY MOTHER SIDE OF THE FAMILY(MY AUNT) SHE HAD TO HAVE A COMPLETE HYSTERECTAMY! COULD THIS BE GENETICS?
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What's the best thing to do to have sex for the first time w out hurting?
Now would be a good time to mention you are going to be tight the first few times, you might want to try a small dildoe on yourself and work up to a lifesize penis, the next thing you need is to relax, by relax i mean become as loose as you can, when he goes to penetrate you, just relax, great pleasure is in store for you if you relax, when he slides his penis in and starts to thrust you will feel like you need to go to the bathroom, i assure you if you have just went and used an enema there wi
I've been dealing with anxiety for 2 weeks, when I found out my significant other had sex with another woman. I felt at that point that I should be tested for STD's and HIV and while researching that information (where to go, etc.) I read too much and have now convinced myself I have HIV. Now my anxiety has turned in to severe panic attacks, several a day. My doctor did give me medication, and did bloodwork to test for HIV, but I am a wreck!
In the past, painful sex would occur every once and awhile. It seems, as time goes by, it only gets worse. The foreplay is perfectly fine. I even have a dildo and that feels fine. My husband is larger than the dildo, but not abnormally large. When he slips into me, it just hurts. It hurts more and more the longer we go and it reduces me to tears.
We use plenty of lube and don't do any weird positions...
Hello everyone. I dropped by this site after visiting many others for a "real" answer to my question which is this. About 3 weeks ago I took a Rapid Ora-quick finger prick test it came out negative. I have 2 and a half more weeks to obtain a conclusive result but my question. My exposure was Oral sex giving and receiving to a girl I just met she was on her period.
The keys to anal sex are 1) lots of lube (the anus doesn’t produce its own lubrication), 2) lots of stimulation of the anal area (to relax that tight sphincter) and 3) gentle, slow penetration, not just ramming it in. Start gradually and slowly, first with just a finger, and then if you mutually decide on penis insertion, do that very slowly as well. It’s OK if you discover that you only want to be penetrated by something small, rather than something a bit more “important” like a penis.
I have this problem... my boyfriend and I really want to try anal sex. We have done it successfully once (although it was extremely painful) and we tried again last night and I was absolutely unable to go through with it. We used lube, went slow, etc. it just wasn't working. And like I said, it was extremely difficult the first time. What I don't understand is that I have done this before in previous relationships. There was some uncomfortablity and pain; but nothing like this.
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