Painful sex after losing virginity

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1319444 tn?1279025936 I had sex with my BF for the first time, it was really painful during intercourse and felling a break pressure inside me, but i didn't bleed at all that time. Then I really didn't consider that but we had sex many times after that and the inter course was getting much more lighter without feeling any pain but still don't know even after all these times why i dint bleed? Is mine one of the hymens that doesn't bleed at all? And if i go to a Dr.
Avatar f tn I have the same problem, me and my partner had sex 3 times by far, I bled every time!!!!!! I know, its very scared......I went to see Dr after first time since I was bleeding over 1 day. Dr checked and said its pretty normal for losing virginity. The 2nd and 3rd time, I didn't bleeding after sex, just during sex. And I did feel pain when hes getting in me.
Avatar n tn i'm 18 and i have never had sex ,iwas washing myself after going to the bathroom and water was too strong toward my vagina and my buttocks and some blood fell down from my vagina maybe or my buttocks hole i am not sure but i want to know is that blood from my vagina and did i lose my virginity? and does water if it was directed on the vagina makes up lose your virginity? my question is did i lose my virginity because of water does water even do that?!
Avatar n tn Bleeding (spotting) and pain ordinarily occurs soon after losing one's virginity due to the hymen being ruptured and torn. So, the spotting could most likely be associated with that. Then again, it could very well signify the onset of one of those infrequent periods. If the bleeding is, in fact, caused by either of theses two scenarios, I wouldn't worry. But, if this bleeding is a cause for concern, to the point that you're uncomfortable with it, you may want to consult a doctor.
Avatar n tn i did not bleed my first time, through the 2nd year i was having sex, and only after getting married and having *intoxicated sex* which later proved to be painful(haha!), did i actually bleed..... ***the definition of virgin is*** A person who has not experienced sexual intercourse. A chaste or unmarried woman; a maiden. An unmarried woman who has taken religious vows of chastity.
Avatar m tn I lost my virginity any it was very painful and I bled a LOT all over the bed and a LOT in the toilet and I am still bleeding some after 3 days. Should I be worried?
Avatar f tn Virginity is the state of a person who has never engaged in sexual intercourse.[1][2] There are cultural and religious traditions which place special value and significance on this state, especially in the case of unmarried females, associated with notions of personal purity, honor and worth. Like chastity, the concept of virginity has traditionally involved sexual abstinence before marriage, and then to engage in sexual acts only with the marriage partner.
Avatar f tn Its like losing your virginity but not as painful lol idk if that makes sense
Avatar f tn m mid-menopausal. He is somewhat large. It hurt worse than I remember losing my virginity hurting. Will sex always be painful now?
Avatar f tn How do i regain my virginity ? I had sex only once & was bleeding. Not sure whether i am virgin. I think i am not. I am 21 year old & we are not sure our relationship mite go upto marriage. Anyways my marriage is after 4 years. So plz do tell how do i regain my virginity ?? Wat if my future husband get to know am not virgin. Am scared. Plz plz help me..
Avatar f tn If your the religious type you can always have hymen reconstructive surgery. Then you can "technically" get your virginity back. Breaking the hymen is essentially what losing your virginity is. With surgery they stretch it and sew it back together (in essence). I'd only recommend this is 1- your religion is overbearing about a woman keeping her virginity until marriage. 2- you feel like going through that terrible pain that made you stop in the first place, all over again.
Avatar n tn No, you don't lose your virginity by masturbation. You have to engage in vaginal intercourse with a man or otherwise your sexuality status is different. I'm a virgin at 34 years old, and however the hymen can can also decrease or wear away with age and physical activity. I don't have a hymen, and there are some virgins who are hymen free or without one. Masturbation or self stimulation alone is someone doing it without anyone or a partner.
Avatar f tn coli i was in a therapy after i finish it i had sex(withoutcondom)and lose my virginity,then i had my periods my vagina started to swollen and now that periods are gone my vagina is still swollen is bleeding and itching ,it hurts when i sit down and walk .
Avatar n tn Watch this, it's a good explanation: https://youtu.be/9qFojO8WkpA Also, while it is important to not let yourself get pressured into anything you don't want - of course - losing your virginity isn't that big of a deal. Like the video says, it's not like you pop something or lose something, or like there is any real change to your body at all.
Avatar n tn What causes a girls vagina to become "loose" and can it come from having a lot of sex? Also, my vagina stays tight, everytime I have sex it's like losing my virginity its not as painful but we literally have to push to get it in. Once its in I'm fine and it kinda loosens up to the penis but within 10 mins after intercourse, I'm tight again... is that normal?
Avatar n tn the only way to do anything like that w/o losing your virginity is through oral sex..... no other way possible, if you have sex, a guy can tell, and you will lose your virginity.
Avatar f tn I started taking Lamictal around two years ago now, and it seems like the sex just gets more and more painful. The sex is honestly more painful than it was losing my virginity. I have only been with 1 man my whole life, and I have been screened for STD's just in case. I am on Lamictal, Keppra, and I also have an IUD. I am pretty sure it is not the Keppra, I've been on that 5+ years, and it isn't the IUD because it hurt before I had that inserted.
1447885 tn?1284653461 Don't worry, if the pain of losing one's virginity was too much for women, there wouldn't be a human race. :) My first time didn't feel great, but that was mostly because I was tense, not because the body makes it impossible to have sex. My advice (besides "don't be in any particular hurry to start having sex") is to use lube for sure, but even more so, wait until you are so turned on that your excitement is the overriding factor.
Avatar n tn perfectly normal. some women do not bleed when losing their virginity. your hymen could have very well torn before this, say if you are physically active in sports, excercise, yoga, some dance moves, some physical labors, etc...it happens. Doesn't mean that you werent a virgin, just means that the hymen split without you noticing.
Avatar f tn Can you get hormonal imbalance after losing virginity? Apparently I have that and before I lost my virginity, my sex drive was very high. Until I lost my virginity a few months ago and it's been very low. I haven't had the urge to watch porn, I can't get any orgasms. I don't feel like touching myself.