When you went to the E,R, they must have told you that if you could not pay for their services that help is available to you
on either
a county or state level because that is
a part of their discharge planning and social services protocol. I would try to get a little help w. this so you can be healthy and happy and move forward....good luck and there are literally thousands and thousands of people in you and your moms shoes right now if you live w/in the U.S.