In your case your partner has to increase her
libido or you have to reduce your
libido. To decrease or increase male-
libido, there are breathing exercises and for female kegel exercise is the best method to increase her libido, Doctor's advice is always helpful for advice and treatment.Doctors do advice Kegel exercises for male as well as female.If both partners are cooperative, there are many techniques, (yogic, exercise, breathing, kendlini youga,Taoist yoga).