Ok I can help u with this as I worked with divorces and paternity for 12 years prior to my career now. But I'm from Texas so laws change from state to state but usually minor details. But by TX law it would complicate things. Legally the legal father is your husband. Now naming your bf as the father on the birth certificate doesn't establish paternity between the baby and ur bf. It actually doesn't do anything. U can name anyone on the birth certificate.
He spends more time with them then with his children and myself. If I say anyhthing about his mother, he jumps on me, but he can say anything about mine and I don't say anything because I do not want to fight. Yet, if I say anything to him about his mother, something so tiny he jumps on me. I'm tired of dealing with this and d on't know what to do.
I'm newly pregnant about 4 wks here's issue,
I have been legally married for 17 years but for the last 7 years not with "ex"husband at all. We live together in separate rooms because I want to raise my 4 older children and can't afford a divorce since all our assets are tied together. I've been with another man for the last 4 years privately and in love .. Next year I was planning to take action and make things happen as in divorce papers ..
Ignorance I know first hand cause my n laws really wreck my nerves. Most days I'm stuck hollering at kids and I don't understand I will shut my door and lock it some me time. Everyone beats down my door if I'm sleep and don't answer they will call my phone 1000 times annoying as hell. This is my first child but they expect for me to get up every morning get my nephew ready for school and take him but I quit after him missing a few days they got the picture.
After the baby is born go get papers at the court house for an uncontested divorce with no children and if they ask its not his. It may sound kind of like on the Maury show but if u ou truly believe he will bring nothing but hardship on the baby erase him from the situation. Sometimes you have to play dirty to protect your baby.
thete are great men out there who will love your baby. I didn't think so until I found my guy.
If you don't mind me asking what state are you from?
m still legally married to someone else and he refusing to file for divorce. I served him paper two years ago but signed them to late. SHOULD I tell him about the baby in hopes that he will then file for divorce. Or just let him discover my growing baby.
The finances can be complex related to divorce and each situation is different. Each state has different laws too. Do you know the laws of your state? Is the house in both your names? I understand the fear you have of losing money on the house and having to find another home for yourself. It stinks. Getting a spouse out is a bit hard. Divorce should do it but you need someone to advise you. Document everything related to his drug use. Take pictures. Record things.
The state will press charges even without the victim wanting them. The laws are in place to protect children, which you are. There is a giant difference between 23 and 16. Anybody who says that there isn't needs to think about the person they were at 16 and the person they were at 23 and can see the difference. I know many teenage mom's who have done right by their children and gone on to make a good life for themselves unfortunately that is not the norm.
I have been wanting to leave my husband for several months now. And he is on to me that I'm seeing someone. Which I have been.
But every time I tell him I don't want to be with him anymore, he forces our love for me to love him and I don't. I love him in a caring way but not an intimate way. Hes a type of person who gets hurt very easily, and I want to know how bad of an idea would it be if I told him I had been seeing someone for 7 months?....
I am sorry you are in this position, I dont think a court would not let you have visitation rights to your children unless you have been abusive to them, Children do need both parents in their lives, I believe many studies have been done showing that children do better with both their Mom and Dad having a positive participation, if your wife has a problem with it and you know you are a good Dad fight for your rights and know that your children will be glad you are in their lives.
In the divorce paperwork they will set visitation. Idk what the laws are where you are but here in KY you can not file for divorce until the child is born. You can file for legal separation but that is it. I would go ahead and call a lawyers and see what the rules are in your area. You may be able to file but not go to court until after baby is here. In divorce papers they will set up child support, visitation, medical support for baby etc.
So we planned to start a family and I got conceived in the 4th month after my marriage. Everything was fine and my in-laws took extreme care of me and were happy. But in my 4th month of pregnancy, they all of a sudden asked me if I know the sex of the baby in my womb and they asked me to go to some small hospitals and check it. I didnt understand why they were saying so. But I didnt do it.
Just ask around if there are any local programs or charities that help women with children. You could ask your good friend to put you and the kids up until you get on your feet too. Or tell him you want a divorce and ask him to leave for the sake of
his children, so you don't have to turn their entire world upside down.
It would affect custody rights but seeing your children are raised that is not an issue. This is how it is in Canada, and our divorce laws are similar I think. I bought a book on law and divorce when I went through mine. It was enlightening to say the least.
We were **** poor broke so there wasn't a lot of marital assets. I did threaten him with all I would do to him if he didn't pay for the lawyer for the divorce though. So at least I got $1000 out of the dead beat.
It depends on the state laws. You'll have to ask your hospital about it. They'll be able to tell you.
She asked for a divorce and in return he chopped her head off. Word has it that it was suppose to be an "honor killing". I hope he will get the death penalty. I hope he does not disappear like the muslim father in TX who killed his two beautiful daughters because they became "to western". He booked out and nobody can't find him.
http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,493645,00.
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