divorce laws with children

He spends more time with them then with his children and myself. If I say anyhthing about his mother, he jumps on me, but he can say anything about mine and I don't say anything because I do not want to fight. Yet, if I say anything to him about his mother, something so tiny he jumps on me. I'm tired of dealing with this and d on't know what to do.

I'm newly pregnant about 4 wks here's issue, I have been legally married for 17 years but for the last 7 years not with "ex"husband at all. We live together in separate rooms because I want to raise my 4 older children and can't afford a divorce since all our assets are tied together. I've been with another man for the last 4 years privately and in love .. Next year I was planning to take action and make things happen as in divorce papers ..

Hi there I have been seperated for 6 months, going through the trials of a complicated divorce.. I have a 10yr old son who went through angry outburts a couple of months ago as he did not want to see his father (his father hit him in anger on a visit), through counsellors recomendation I told my son that he did not have to visit with him until he was ready to see him.. Since then his outbursts have stopped and he seems much happier in himself..

Told my husband that If she were to live with us that would be the quickest way to divorce. I will not do it. Now my mom when the time comes will stay with us. I am an only child. Plus my Kom actually contribute s to the household when she comes for visits and she loves our children. Hubby she aid she van definitely stay with us.

I'd personally seek legal advice as it is his child and some states/countries have very specific policies on parents taking children away. As horrible as it is that he doesn't want to be with you that doesn't automatically make him a bad father and it doesn't give you the right still to take away his rights. Alternatively you could get his consent to move and that way u won't have legal hassles depending how amicable things are.

Can someone give me articles on benefits and needs of children spending time with their father after a divorce. I need it in court to prove my ex wife wrong, she wants to prevent me from seeing my children.

I got married last year and my marriage life went on well for the first two months with my husband. Then my mother in law started pestering me and my husband about baby. So we planned to start a family and I got conceived in the 4th month after my marriage. Everything was fine and my in-laws took extreme care of me and were happy. But in my 4th month of pregnancy, they all of a sudden asked me if I know the sex of the baby in my womb and they asked me to go to some small hospitals and check it.

You all are living with in-laws so maybe he is using his social media as an outlet like you are doing on here with us to escape from the real world. If you feel you all can work through this and he won't do it again I say work it out. If not and you are really fed up, go to your local dfacs office and get info about section 8 and low income housing. Also at 17w you are still early in your pregnancy to find maybe a part time job if your other 2 are school age.

It would affect custody rights but seeing your children are raised that is not an issue. This is how it is in Canada, and our divorce laws are similar I think. I bought a book on law and divorce when I went through mine. It was enlightening to say the least. We were **** poor broke so there wasn't a lot of marital assets. I did threaten him with all I would do to him if he didn't pay for the lawyer for the divorce though. So at least I got $1000 out of the dead beat.

So im currently going through a divorce. Its no where close to being over with. I just found out im 9wks 5day pregnant by my bf. Im so nervous to tell my lawyer and don't know why?! Anyone know what could happen? Someone said legally my husband is considered the dad but i know dang well he isnt.

Now the taxpayers are having to foot the bill with thie bailout package, the road to hell was paved with god intentions.

In the divorce paperwork they will set visitation. Idk what the laws are where you are but here in KY you can not file for divorce until the child is born. You can file for legal separation but that is it. I would go ahead and call a lawyers and see what the rules are in your area. You may be able to file but not go to court until after baby is here. In divorce papers they will set up child support, visitation, medical support for baby etc.

My son is 8 years old and since he was 4 we have had problems with Behavioral issues but since my divorce with his mother it has gotten worse. While he is with me he is very well behaved but with his mother and in school he behaves very bad to to point where he tripped a girl and has lied about it denying it and saying that everyone is out to get him in general he is very caring.

Are there laws for this in your country? What are laws for divorce? I agree completely that you should not be with this man. So, then it is the logistics of how to get out of it. Do you have support of your parents and family? But getting out of that does not mean you should be with the other man. I'm sorry if that is blunt. I know it is easy to do. Go from one to another if we are afraid of being on our own or that seems impossible.

So how do i explain to my children when the baby gets to go places and comes home with new things all the time? Its going to break their hearts. Im just at a loss. Part of me says to make my husband have a talk and tell them to treat the kids all the same, but part of me says its natural for it to be only the baby. I just know i feel like theres a storm thats gonna hit after i give birth... whether it be from my kids or my in laws.

I agree with Teko. I would not get involved at all with m in law's relationship with her daughters. That can be very complicated and there could be more to the story than you'll ever know. I think it is a good thing for you M in law to take care of the kids as these things can make people closer. And the grand kids get to have a relationship with grandma. But if you don't want that going on in your home due to your space, that is a separate issue.

My in laws have a 4 yr old daughter. I'm 36 weeks with our first child. The in laws don't discipline the 4 yr old AT ALL and constantly complain about other kids misbehavior although theirs is the same. Very nervous that they will spank my child for things that they don't spank their own for. They did spank their other children. While I'm not opposed to spanking my child, I do not like the idea of someone spanking her for things that they didn't spank their for.

I was dx last year with ms and am now find myself soon to be divorced. My husband holds the insurance and earns the $$. Has any one faced this situation. How will I cover my medical expenses. My copaxone. I don't know what to do.

my boyfriend whos getting a divorce in march comes from a very rich family whos crazy about having kids on their side. my boyfriends mother put it in her sons head to divorce his wife and take their son. the mother has no contact with the kid anymore. my boyfriend got his wife into drugs and thats what they hold agaisnt her. i dont get along with my boyfriends parents at all because they think im a gold digger.

I have my degree in psychology, majoring in child development and I also work with children with behavioural issues. If your cousin has shared custody with his ex he has the right to take his son to be assessed by a doctor and a child therapist/psychologist if he is at all concerned. He may have to get his partner's consent depending on the laws where you are located.

I have been living with my boyfriend for years. Many of you seem to think that because we live together we are less committed or are playing at being married. but my boyfriend and I are deeply in love. and very committed to each other. their is no pretending. Because we live together we know everything about each other.

thanks all, the child is grown with children of her own. Your comments were most helpful, which I passed along……..

Why was a knife in the living room to begin with?! They rough house with him and laugh when he falls. He ends up with cuts and bruises because they aren't careful. Why in the world would I want my child to go through that?! Hubby doesn't understand why I'm soo upset! They are careless and lazy! I hate living with them! I can't wait to get my own home!

A social worker might not help in that they are overburdened with so many problematic children, but I think it is the only thing you can really do. You said this is a niece of yours, is there no way for you to talk to the mother and/or father and confront them with what their child is doing to see if they will seek help for the child?

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