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I recommend the book Difficult Questions Kids Ask and Are Afraid to Ask About Divorce by Dr. Meg Schneide. This is the best guide to helping kids through divorce I have found to date. You can also help your child adjust by seeking the help of a psychologist or counselor who specializes in young children. Some play therapy and parenting help can make the transition smoother and help you stay attuned to your little ones needs.
He wasn't my husband and we don't have other kids but my child's father left me for his ex About 2 months ago. It *****. I just try to focus on my baby and realize that if he wanted to leave I could do nothing but keep it moving.
I am honestly tired of this marriage. I've had enough some days. I cry so much because I miss being on my own and independent. I'm tired of being someone's maid who doesn't appreciate it a damn thing. I will clean up he makes a mess. I try to have a schedule and routine he won't let me follow it or gets upset if I do things without him. I am 30 weeks pregnant I don't want to take care of two kids! Meaning he's the other big kid.
The fact is through the highly emotional period of separation and divorce I have cried sometimes when I am alone with my kids and twice this occurred during low glucose levels with one of the times my older boy got me food, ice cream. (The other time I got food myself.) We were at Cedar Point and I was waiting for the ride with them when my glucose was going down at the same time I realized that the last time we were here as a family which got me sad.
He soild his underpants and then wiped it on the sofa, my question is- is this possibly related to the divorce or mabey something more??? Please help!!!!
I'm newly pregnant about 4 wks here's issue,
I have been legally married for 17 years but for the last 7 years not with "ex"husband at all. We live together in separate rooms because I want to raise my 4 older children and can't afford a divorce since all our assets are tied together. I've been with another man for the last 4 years privately and in love .. Next year I was planning to take action and make things happen as in divorce papers ..
I do know you are eligible for Cobra (36 months I think) under his insurance at work. It is expensive but you would get a rate given to all their employees ..better than nothing. If he makes the big $$$$ and you have been married more than ten years, it is possible that he could be made to pay for the Cobra. Ask your lawyer about it.
I have two boys, 2 and 1 and we just found out I'm about 5 weeks pregnant. We will have a newborn 2 and 3 year old.
My problem is, I'm worried about what everyone is going to think. I'm 21. All my kids have the same father. We've been together 3, almost 4 years and married since April. He is also military and leaves in October. We won't be moving til sometime in march.
I'm not disappointed. I'm just scared I think.
my boyfriend whos getting a divorce in march comes from a very rich family whos crazy about having kids on their side. my boyfriends mother put it in her sons head to divorce his wife and take their son. the mother has no contact with the kid anymore. my boyfriend got his wife into drugs and thats what they hold agaisnt her. i dont get along with my boyfriends parents at all because they think im a gold digger.
Besides how are you supposed to raise those kids after you divorce when you are a stay at home mom. Divorce opens up a whole new can of worms.
Two things from the little tht you posted. You could be having a serious bout of depression, hormone fluctuations, or might just need to add something to your life for you only. Adult time, me time, a hobby of some sort, make a few friends and a good way to do that is to see if a moms group is active in your area and you can check that on the computer.
I'm with both ladies. Your wife needs some help. As a wife and mother...even IF I did cheat on my husband (which I never would) I could NEVER in a million years dream of telling my children I didn't love them or want them.
As far as the divorce goes, I'm not sure what to tell you. If you think it's what's best for you AND the kids do it. If you want to wait and see if she would go see a psychiatrist first...do that.
She took care of us from birth, she put her life on hold for us, taking care of her when she needed us was the very least we could do. We would glady be happy to continue to do it if we could have our mother back. I still need my mother no matter how old I get but she is gone now. She became my best friend on top of being my Mama.
I have struggled with the idea of divorce..I have been raised that GOD hates divorce..so, what do you do in a situation where you have prayed about your marriage and your husband doesn't change? He appears at times to change but its because it will benefit him in some way, and i don't fall for that anymore.
Wife lives in Denver. I just got a job in NC. I want to get kids input about moving to NC so we can both parent them. Am I being unfair to want to ask their input on moving. They are 8 and 10 yrs old.
My son is having a tremendously hard time adjusting to the divorce and continually is creating a caustic environment for me and my daughter. I spend 90% of my time trying to mollify him and parent out of fear. There is hardly anything left for my daughter and she is beginning to resent it and act out. My son is in therapy. I am in therapy. My daughter visits the school counselors. It is an unbearable existence. Might anyone have some helpful advice?
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