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I recommend the book Difficult Questions Kids Ask and Are Afraid to Ask About Divorce by Dr. Meg Schneide. This is the best guide to helping kids through divorce I have found to date. You can also help your child adjust by seeking the help of a psychologist or counselor who specializes in young children. Some play therapy and parenting help can make the transition smoother and help you stay attuned to your little ones needs.
m going through a much needed divorce, it should be final in September when I get my divorce decree. The DF and I are living here in Iowa as of now, but as soon as my divorce is final I am wanting to move back home to Michigan. However moving costs a lot of money these days, especially when moving out of state. I don't know what would be best for my family at this point.
He wasn't my husband and we don't have other kids but my child's father left me for his ex About 2 months ago. It *****. I just try to focus on my baby and realize that if he wanted to leave I could do nothing but keep it moving.
I am honestly tired of this marriage. I've had enough some days. I cry so much because I miss being on my own and independent. I'm tired of being someone's maid who doesn't appreciate it a damn thing. I will clean up he makes a mess. I try to have a schedule and routine he won't let me follow it or gets upset if I do things without him. I am 30 weeks pregnant I don't want to take care of two kids! Meaning he's the other big kid.
I dont care about the man or father of the kids because the two of you are adults but what about the kids you gave birth too? Is it them? Do you think the kids ask the same question? Is it me? So anyway please give that some thought.
For the current guy. He is pretty much told you that your relationship is a no go long term and has baggage of his own. With all the baggage you both bring to the relationship, how can it possibly work out for good for both of you.
The fact is through the highly emotional period of separation and divorce I have cried sometimes when I am alone with my kids and twice this occurred during low glucose levels with one of the times my older boy got me food, ice cream. (The other time I got food myself.) We were at Cedar Point and I was waiting for the ride with them when my glucose was going down at the same time I realized that the last time we were here as a family which got me sad.
As he is upset by the Divorce it is proably just a way of acting out, his Mom should ask him why he did it and tell him that it is not permitted,this is common in Chldren who are frustrated, tell your Cousin to get him involved in Games and Pysical activitys and give him plenty of care and extra Attention.
Where shall I start??? During the last few months, my four year old has displayed the same type of behavior. She was in a home daycare, and recently, she started a pre-school program where the class is much larger (close to 15-18 kids) than her former home daycare environment (4 kids). She has had major outbursts at the new facility where she has kicked, yelled, and scratched the teacher.
Your married who cares. Same dad even better. Trust me darling my Husbands ex she's the mother of one of kids had her third at 22 two different dads but her other baby Daddy has 2 other kids with different woman. She lycee off friends and family. Trust me your doing it the right way. Tie your tubes or get birth control. It's good having siblings near age.
i havnt told him my pregnant because im fearing he will try to take the baby away from me because im poor. he doesnt even take care of his own son. im the one stuck taking care of him while hes at work all day. hes a truck driver. what should i do. part of me wants to leave him and not tell him anything but another knows its wrong.
My husband and I just decided on divorce after a five years of a very rocky marriage the last two years we have been seperated. after deciding this I moved to another state with our son who is five year old to finish my degree and my husband was deployed all of this has affected our son very much....... He is VERY active, rebellious, demanding, stubborn and just plain out does not listen. He might listen to me a little but deffiantly test his limits with me....
d just make the both of us miserable. Both of us have talked and agreed neither of us wants a divorce. Despite my horrendous mood swings we are happy with one another.
I had the Mirena for almost 2 years (which is when we both noticed my moods changing) and I had it taken out. It got better for a while, and actually is a lot better than before (I was pretty much an unbearable b!tch when I had the Mirena in) but I'm still not me. I honestly hate feeling like this.
If you read why I wrote I found out AFTER we broke up about his kids. Their mother is the one who contacted me. I mentioned it to him and he denied everything. She sent me screen shots of convos between them. Under different circumstances I would have no problem telling him about the baby. But taking he fact he doesn't care for either of his 5 kids. In and out of their life and causing nothing but problems. I am not going to my family or my child thru that.
Ok My fiancé has alots of problems with his x and he was suppose be final divorce yesterday but still in proses... since they have 2 kids its so difficult...and agin they said for March it's been 2 years I'm ******* tired of this ******** !!!i put myself this situation that I believe him it will be done faster!!!
Dear I_luv_kitties
Yes I agree and that's why we are being extremely cautious not to set a bad example. And that's why the kids are always the priority when we consider anything. And I did have a conversation with him telling him that I cannot let the kids have an impression that "friends" can be so "intimate".
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