People came pouring in, with their condolences, with food, and with advice that was definately not wanted at that point and time. You have to eat
, you have to get some rest, or my personal favorite, you have to stop grieving and take care of your mom. To this day I struggle with my feelings for person who had the gall to say that to me.
It was five days before we would have the funeral, and people were everywhere. I wanted so bad just to scream at them go home and leave us alone.