I did not want to sound back stabbing but more inquisitive and loving to
help him. I also indicated, I needed to get some
help as I never know what to expect next. She could not believe he would behave this way, as it was out of character. Actually, she is right. We have been married for 34 years and this never happened.
My instincts are telling me, there is some deep seated resentment that is surfacing with sobriety as mentioned in the above posts.