Wow that's awfule but that's exactly what I went through. He claims that he hasn't done anything since the summer with her and that they're just co workers.. Even if that is true I still felt so degraded by him her and everybody that knows.. I don't even know who knows and who doesn't but I saw her photos and Instagram an she blasted ALL these quotes about cheating and EVERYBODY know who she's referring too. I feel so degraded.
If you want to have sex with someone else then you need to break up with your girlfriend. Apparently you don't even like your girlfriend anyway since you're complaining about her body. Break up with her so she will find someone less critical and who wouldn't even consider cheating on her.
Cheaters don't belong in relationships. How would you feel if it was your girlfriend who was told the same thing by a guy with a better body than yours and she wanted to cheat on you with him?
Being attracted to other people is not something to break up over. Have you never looked at another guy while in a relationship? The point is that he's not acting on these things. I know one thing that helps my husband I is talking about our fantisies or attractions. The hubs has a weird thing for redheads so once in a while I'll buy a box of washout hair dye to surprise him. The point is give him some slack he's normal, it doesn't mean he's cheating or will cheat.
it was perfect from both sides however due to deadlines I havent been round to much for a month but there over next week. then she just said pretty much sick of the texting, its just become forced, even when were out in public its not great cuz we dont have enough alone time whereas i didnt think any of the above.. then by text was given the "break" messge..
He only told me as the other g/f has a lot of text messages that she is going to give to me and he wanted to find out from me first. He has said that he wants to be with me and will break it off with the other lady. He has told me some awful lies and I am not sure what to do next. She has no kids, he has a disabled daughter so "family" wise it works better for him and him and his wife had a messy divorce as he cheated 3 times so it has been hard for him to be open with them.
I think people do live in regret. Prime example, my first love started cheating on me with a girl at his job. Well we broke up, not because I found out but because he was hanging out all the time and I just got fed up with him coming home at all hours of the morning and so I ended it. When my attempts at trying to get back with him were rejected, he finally told me he was seeing someone.
Rock, I agree with you mostly except for it was his friend. . . and that has a lingering effect. That adds a little extra burn to the rub.
t believe how could he let a woman see him naked and let her touch him in such way. I mean if he would let other woman touch him naked i would be willing to break up with him but a handjob wow... i keep imagining a woman messing with his ***** and i want to break up with him as soon as possible what's your opinion on this?
And also, you need to look at it this way. If you had been dating him first wouldn't you hate it if he started seeing another girl on the sly? Imagine what that girl is going through. She's invested a lot more years into their relationship. It's going to be even more devastating if and when she finds out he's been cheating on her. It's your duty to break up with him because he obviously isn't going to. Unless you like the idea of dating another woman's man.
If you are serious about a guy and thinking about marriage, i might then tell him, Tell him as a point of opening up the conversation about cheating in general and what you expect. You learned the hard way it's not worth it, afterwards it feels bad. A man that is to become your husband should be able to have this conversation with you and trust what you say about never doing anything like this again and not hold it against you.
You won't be alone, you'll have your baby and your family and friends. You may meet someone later on down the track but you're much better off without a cheating scumbag. That's not the example you want to set for your child.
My dr told me a lot of men change when their wives/girlfriends are pregnant. That's usually when they start cheating and/or becoming abusive.
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