For once this isn't exactly all about me! Us addicts can be very self involved, don't you think? :) Let me give yall some background., My husband and I have been together for 14 years. We have done pills together off and on that whole time, however he can do pills for a month or two, walk away and wait a year to do anymore, we obviously have a different chemical makeup! So last night after the kiddo went to bed, we were talking about my situation, using this site, and getting aftercare.