Divorce advice for men in california
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Heey im 17 i live in California my bf is 21 and he wants me to put his last name but since im a minor idk if i could do that people told me that u could name your baby anything but i beed advice pls comment thank you
He is cute, and I like him, but he has no place to live and no job. I let him move in with me. For a while, it made me happy. He made me happy. I felt like I forgot about my divorce and my affair and the man I had the affair with. Then, all of the sudden, like a switch was flipped, I started getting more and more depressed. I missed two Fridays of work in a row. I cry all of the time.
I've been married to my husband for 11 years now. This is my first marriage, and his third. He has been controlling and emotionally/verbally abusive for most of our marriage. Six months ago, I told him that I wanted a divorce, and he told me that he would do anything to keep our marriage intact, so we went to counseling. The verbal abuse stopped, but the control didn't. I have 2 daughters, one is a teenager and one is in her early 20s, and they both live with us.
Marriage is suppose to be "Until Death Us Part" not until he makes you sad, mad, or makes you cry. Pregnant or not. So, no I believe you should "let him go". You should tell him know how you feel. I know you're just looking for advice, but remember that's a choice YOU would have to live with. Praying for you and your marriage & Congrats on your baby!
dear girl, i am sorry for your health issues and pray that the good days outweigh the bad...
i am happy to hear that you know that contact with your friend must end for both of your own good, it can only hurt you to have him wanting you to move on with other men so he doesn't feel guilty that you have been waiting for him all this time. No good feelings can come from that. for either of you. After you have moved on emotionally from this you will be open to new possibilities.
I just went through this in WI. I had filled papers last February for a divorce. He and his lawyer dragged it out. In December I found out I was pregnant with my boyfriends that lived with me. My judge ordered a guardian ad lietam and all three of us had to testify at the trial to who the father of the child was. However the judge could have ordered a DNA test to be done because the child was presumed my ex husband's by law.
All that dating a guy in the throes of divorce will do is make him remember the nasty time during the divorce when he thinks of you. And who knows, he might already have his eye on some other woman -- men rarely divorce "just because," even if they are unhappy in their marriages ... they usually only will go through with it if someone who looks better is waiting. Sorry to say.
My husband and I have been married for almost a year now. We are also expecting our first child in March. He has always treated me great and makes sure I'm taken care of, but that's not the problem. We had agreed when we first started dating to set basic relationship boundaries for each other, like no lying, no cheating, no hiding things from each other, ect. One of my boundaries was that I didn't want him watching porn.
We are sharing the residence currently as we are in just in the beginning of the divorce process. She has threatened me with custody issues in the past. Now that I have this new evidence my concern is not to use this against her but to protect my kids while I am away. Should I try to get temporary custody? What about my history? Will that be frowned upon even though I am clean now and could pass a drug test? I have no intentions of taking my kids away from their mother.
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My husband came out of a 25-yr marriage to a nymphomaniac, who he eventually divorced b/c she cheated more than once. We have only been married for 3-yrs, but divorce is back on the table for the 5th time and I'm tired of the threats, disrespect and problems. My husband masturbates almost every day; because of his age (59) and pre-conditioning with previous wife, he has to take viagra to do so.
I may sound crazy by venting on here but I've been with my husband since I was 18 I am now 29 and I'm expecting our 5th child and I'm so ready for a divorce I feel like I hate him now he's so mean to me he's 40 and he's like a grumpy old man. I'm overly confident that I can take care of my children on my own and be much happier doing it. The state of California won't let me surve him with papers until I have the baby but I'm ready now.
I do not in any way feel that divorce is easy emotionally for many people. It is easy however, in the mechanics of most divorces. In my state in most cases all you need is both parties to sign the line and a very small amount of money to file the court papers. Some divorces are worse than others, such as the outrageously messy one my parents just went through.
Sometimes women do run them over with cars, or hire hit men - but the hit men, in my estimation, are usually for financial gains and not an offshoot of a domestic violence issues. But, in those cases the husband's lives ARE threatened although they may never ever have experienced any episodes of intimidation or violence from their wives.
turns out he, having been the provider for the family, had quit paying the mortgage a couple of months prior to leaving, traded in the family car for a Porshe, and moved across country to California. just like that. completely lost his m.i.n.d.
I swear since maybe halfway through my first trimester, I am just the angriest, little mean butt I've ever been! My poor husband.......sometimes he does next to nothing, but I'm still irrationally furious and I'm trying to get better but no luck! I even try breathing to calm myself down before we talk but he's getting upset with me for constantly being upset. Any advice for me????
I recently rang a number in an advertisement for BPH stating "WE provide a non-surgical non-invasive treatment programme for BPH which can relieve you of all these embarrassing and irritating symptoms"I was told it was a course of treatment of an oral medication made by natural means and would cost around $3000.00 per month and would remove all symptoms.
His friend practically lived with me and we fell for each other hard. Never planned but it definitely happen. I have never cheated in my life and I know this is wrong on so many levels. Now. I am living in another state but want to move back. And his friend is begging me to move back because he knows I'm truly happy in my home town. I love my husband but I'm not in love with him. He's a good good man. But his friend .. There are so many feelings .
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