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I'm newly pregnant about 4 wks here's issue, I have been legally married for 17 years but for the last 7 years not with "ex"husband at all. We live together in separate rooms because I want to raise my 4 older children and can't afford a divorce since all our assets are tied together. I've been with another man for the last 4 years privately and in love .. Next year I was planning to take action and make things happen as in divorce papers ..

I may sound crazy by venting on here but I've been with my husband since I was 18 I am now 29 and I'm expecting our 5th child and I'm so ready for a divorce I feel like I hate him now he's so mean to me he's 40 and he's like a grumpy old man. I'm overly confident that I can take care of my children on my own and be much happier doing it. The state of California won't let me surve him with papers until I have the baby but I'm ready now.

No offense, but it's really hard to read what you have written - are you deeply depressed and want to get out of your marriage? Are you looking for advice about your depression or about how to get a divorce? If it's about divorce, you should talk with a lawyer.

My husband kicked me out yesterday. He said he wants a divorce because he doesnt love me anymore. This is all so sudden, and a shock to me, because i thought we had a great marriage. My question is, i want to move outside the country, im 7 months. My question is can i fly on plane across the ocean when im 7 months? Can he sue me for kidnapping his child even though he's not born yet?

Thanks everyone for the advice. We live in Wisconsin. We've been married 23 years with lots of up and downs. He is also a control freak and will try to intimidate me. Tonight he told me that I stepped out of bounds he would drop me from his open enrollment for group Insurance.

s shelter for a week came back things got better for a while got married then he acting like a **** again! Anyone have any advice about divorce and child custody that's been through this?

m still legally married to someone else and he refusing to file for divorce. I served him paper two years ago but signed them to late. SHOULD I tell him about the baby in hopes that he will then file for divorce. Or just let him discover my growing baby.

He is separated from his wife of a few years, whom he has a daughter with. I wanted him to take a break away. We took split vacations I went to California for a medical reason and he went to Florida to stay with his sister. I am getting my Mirena (IUD) removed the day before he comes home, because I am having issues with it. He says he wants to file for a divorce with his wife and try to conceive with me when he comes home at the end of this week. Is it too soon? Possibly too much stress?

I am 10 weeks pregnant and have been married that long... My husband is not nice to me in the slightest. I know that for the sake of my baby and myself I need to do something but I don't know if I'm scared or what. I have constant anxiety and because of it I have a pain in my side. Has anyone else ever asked for a divorce? How did you do it? I don't know how to approach this and I feel like I'm dying inside.

I have put in my application for divorce and for a goverment apartment, but with goverment helped there is 3 stimpulations (for the divorce). 1. all properties are to be sold and divided evenly (we dont have any property), 2. was something else, and 3. was agreed custody over our duaghter. I sat down and tried talking to him calmly, but I don't see him agreeing on it. I take care of my daughter pretty much on my own (school issues, doctors,.

I have had depression and anxiety since age 18 so dont think its just cause of divorce..not living w husband has brought more peace to my life. but of course divorce the legal part is stressful I have read and read...Dr says maybe I may be bi-polar type 2..along w the anxiety depression which I guess is part of bi-polar 2...so why am I not on seroquel (sp?) also I have been on xanax ( prescribed by family dr) for years since I was early twentys I am 48 now) ..

Six months ago, I told him that I wanted a divorce, and he told me that he would do anything to keep our marriage intact, so we went to counseling. The verbal abuse stopped, but the control didn't. I have 2 daughters, one is a teenager and one is in her early 20s, and they both live with us. He is also very controlling with them. Three weeks ago, I told him that I could no longer try to work on our marriage, that I didn't love him like a husband anymore, and that I wanted a divorce.

Heey im 17 i live in California my bf is 21 and he wants me to put his last name but since im a minor idk if i could do that people told me that u could name your baby anything but i beed advice pls comment thank you

I have been married for about 3 months now. We have been off and on about 4 years. When I decided to marry him I thought it would make everything better. But it seems to have made everything worse. He is very jealous. He does not like any of my friends. He's made me quit several good jobs. And I just feel so controlled. Often suicidal. I want it to work. I keep telling him that I want him to treat me like he used to. Do the things that made me fall in love. I don't believe in divorce.

Talk to a lawyer! I'm sure there are plenty of law forums for California law that you could get a little bit of advice from. Either that, or one of your friends or family members knows someone that can give you some advice. A divorce lawyer would probably be able to send you down the right path. They handle more than just that. I'm sure you know someone that got a divorce who might be able to hook you up.Good luck. Don't just risk it.

45 days prior to me returning to the states at the end of the contract she filed for divorce and never even talked with me about it. I did not know until paperwork was in hand 2 weeks after it was filed in the court. I returned to the states and I am living apart from the family. There was no communication for over 4 weeks all went through attorneys while I stood with my jaw on the ground wondering what happened.

To me it seems theres a bigger underlying issue and both of u need to sit down and camly talk about how u both feel and why u feel this way and how u both can make things work. Dont jump into wanting divorce just yet because wanting a divorce might be because of ur hormones. And frankly thats the easy way out. Both of you need to work on this relationship and also compromise.

my husband started drinking heavily and we used to fight alot he used to get agressive and try to start arguments and of course the angrier i got the more heated the fights would get but it was only on his days off and at home i never really thought about separation or divorce because he was still providing even though he drank and we would fight nonstop he never stopped being responsible with the bills and i think that unless a man is cheating anything can be fixed i know its different when yo

I should probably seek a therapy but thought I'd see if I'd get people perhaps that feel the same way. I'm going through a really difficult time I'm 13weeks and 5 days pregnant which I'm really excited about however I'm 21 years old and got married beginning of December and feel that I rushed into a realshionship and marriage really fast. And got pregnant all to quick.

My son is having a tremendously hard time adjusting to the divorce and continually is creating a caustic environment for me and my daughter. I spend 90% of my time trying to mollify him and parent out of fear. There is hardly anything left for my daughter and she is beginning to resent it and act out. My son is in therapy. I am in therapy. My daughter visits the school counselors. It is an unbearable existence. Might anyone have some helpful advice?

t understand is how i can go from feeling totally normal and never having problems at all with anxiety to feeling far from normal and having problems with anxiety everyday. Is my divorce the trigger for this? My divorce was such a big change in my life and i thought that maybe my anxiety could be coming from this and my reaction to the divorce.

Okay, I lived in illinois my whole life til my husband who is in the navy got stationed in california. My drivers license is still illinois (I got it renewed a few months after we moved to cali when I came to visir family), my plates for my car, blah blah blah. I haven't had a job in california yet, we haven't even been here a year and I got pregnant 8 months ago. If I have the baby in illinois, is it an illinois citizen because that is my state of residence/home of record?

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