Divorce advice for men california

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Avatar f tn Heey im 17 i live in California my bf is 21 and he wants me to put his last name but since im a minor idk if i could do that people told me that u could name your baby anything but i beed advice pls comment thank you
Avatar f tn I do not have the money for counseling, so please do not tell me to do that. I am a teacher who is divorcing. No funds for counseling.
Avatar f tn I've been married to my husband for 11 years now. This is my first marriage, and his third. He has been controlling and emotionally/verbally abusive for most of our marriage. Six months ago, I told him that I wanted a divorce, and he told me that he would do anything to keep our marriage intact, so we went to counseling. The verbal abuse stopped, but the control didn't. I have 2 daughters, one is a teenager and one is in her early 20s, and they both live with us.
Avatar f tn Marriage is suppose to be "Until Death Us Part" not until he makes you sad, mad, or makes you cry. Pregnant or not. So, no I believe you should "let him go". You should tell him know how you feel. I know you're just looking for advice, but remember that's a choice YOU would have to live with. Praying for you and your marriage & Congrats on your baby!
Avatar f tn t start until we were separated and I had hired divorce attorneys. Any advice. Also, I really care for this other man and the timing seriously *****. I would like to give the relationship a chance but it seems far fetched in this situation- I don't want to loose him though.
1530342 tn?1405016490 By Jen Heger Radar Legal Editor Arnold Schwarzenegger is paying child support to his estranged wife, Maria Shriver, even though the couple has yet to iron out any kind of financial agreement, RadarOnline.com is exclusively reporting. Neither Arnold nor Maria has officially filed for divorce yet, but the former Governor of California has been paying his estranged wife "a significant amount of child support.
Avatar f tn I should probably seek a therapy but thought I'd see if I'd get people perhaps that feel the same way. I'm going through a really difficult time I'm 13weeks and 5 days pregnant which I'm really excited about however I'm 21 years old and got married beginning of December and feel that I rushed into a realshionship and marriage really fast. And got pregnant all to quick.
Avatar f tn dear girl, i am sorry for your health issues and pray that the good days outweigh the bad... i am happy to hear that you know that contact with your friend must end for both of your own good, it can only hurt you to have him wanting you to move on with other men so he doesn't feel guilty that you have been waiting for him all this time. No good feelings can come from that. for either of you. After you have moved on emotionally from this you will be open to new possibilities.
Avatar f tn I just went through this in WI. I had filled papers last February for a divorce. He and his lawyer dragged it out. In December I found out I was pregnant with my boyfriends that lived with me. My judge ordered a guardian ad lietam and all three of us had to testify at the trial to who the father of the child was. However the judge could have ordered a DNA test to be done because the child was presumed my ex husband's by law.
10707428 tn?1415569790 My husband kicked me out yesterday. He said he wants a divorce because he doesnt love me anymore. This is all so sudden, and a shock to me, because i thought we had a great marriage. My question is, i want to move outside the country, im 7 months. My question is can i fly on plane across the ocean when im 7 months? Can he sue me for kidnapping his child even though he's not born yet?
Avatar f tn like your situation they were men going through divorces with their first wives. Some of their wives filed for divorce from them and some of them filed for divorce from their wives......kinda a mix. They met someone else during their separation period while going through their divorces and now they all are married to the women they met during that time. Another common thread was these were OLDER men who had been in a lifeless/dead marriage for a decade or longer.
Avatar f tn Id rather he watch a bit of porn from time to time than him going out and acting out the real thing. Men have little vices and if this is his and hes great in every other way I'd just try live with it.
Avatar m tn No incident HIV infections among MSM who practice exclusively oral sex. Int Conf AIDS 2004 Jul 11-16; 15:(abstract no. WePpC2072)??Balls JE, Evans JL, Dilley J, Osmond D, Shiboski S, Shiboski C, Klausner J, McFarland W, Greenspan D, Page-Shafer K?University of California, San Francisco, San Francisco, United States Oral transmission of HIV, reality or fiction?
Avatar f tn My husband came out of a 25-yr marriage to a nymphomaniac, who he eventually divorced b/c she cheated more than once. We have only been married for 3-yrs, but divorce is back on the table for the 5th time and I'm tired of the threats, disrespect and problems. My husband masturbates almost every day; because of his age (59) and pre-conditioning with previous wife, he has to take viagra to do so.
Avatar f tn I swear since maybe halfway through my first trimester, I am just the angriest, little mean butt I've ever been! My poor husband.......sometimes he does next to nothing, but I'm still irrationally furious and I'm trying to get better but no luck! I even try breathing to calm myself down before we talk but he's getting upset with me for constantly being upset. Any advice for me????
Avatar f tn I may sound crazy by venting on here but I've been with my husband since I was 18 I am now 29 and I'm expecting our 5th child and I'm so ready for a divorce I feel like I hate him now he's so mean to me he's 40 and he's like a grumpy old man. I'm overly confident that I can take care of my children on my own and be much happier doing it. The state of California won't let me surve him with papers until I have the baby but I'm ready now.
Avatar f tn Sam, you make some great points. Yes, it's true that women file for divorce more than men. I think it's b/c men and women have different expectations of marriage. Also, men will take longer to file for divorce so women have to do it. It's not that the men don't want the divorce, some men just don't want to be bothered with the process of a divorce. Maybe men see it as a big failure while women just want to move on with their life?
9636087 tn?1406212168 Talk to a lawyer! I'm sure there are plenty of law forums for California law that you could get a little bit of advice from. Either that, or one of your friends or family members knows someone that can give you some advice. A divorce lawyer would probably be able to send you down the right path. They handle more than just that. I'm sure you know someone that got a divorce who might be able to hook you up.Good luck. Don't just risk it.
Avatar n tn I would like to find out for those of you men out there if you have gone through this and why? The reason I am asking is 3 weeks ago my husband came home and told me he didn't love me anymore. He said I love you as a person, and respect you. This is after being with him for 31 years and doing everything for him. Taking care of him while he was sick, when he lost his job, standing by him.
10943479 tn?1432725499 iknew he had kids with that female but ijust thought she was his BM but he told me they were going to divorce he didnt have uh job the whole tym we were together so that was his excuse of not being able to pay for the divorce, his wife/BM had messaged me telling me to make him pay for the divorce so she can marry her fiance she was pregnant by but idk y she didnt pay it but anyways &it bothered me alot ididnt trust him anymore &so ididnt let him choose our daughters name &itold him
773464 tn?1246838035 No offense, but it's really hard to read what you have written - are you deeply depressed and want to get out of your marriage? Are you looking for advice about your depression or about how to get a divorce? If it's about divorce, you should talk with a lawyer.
Avatar m tn If there has been this constant looking for other men companionship, can we really ever rectify the relationship? Is divorce the right direction? I love her, but that doesn't compete with our history and can there actually be a healthy loving relationship?
Avatar f tn If i was in your pistion I probably wouldve knocked him flat on his a$$ for saying I chose for him to treat me this way...I also hope you have support from family and friends...Best of Luck.
Avatar m tn Greenspan Page-Shafer K, Veugelers PJ, Moss AR, Strathdee S, Kaldor JM, van Griensven GJ. Sexual risk behavior and risk factors for HIV-1 seroconversion in homosexual men participating in the Tricontinental Seroconverter Study, 1982-1994 [published erratum appears in Am J Epidemiol 1997 15 Dec; 146(12):1076]. Am J Epidemiol 1997, 146:531-542.