divorce laws unfair to men

I got it from the person I lost my virginity to. I just dont understand why they do not test men for it. They do have a test now but prior to what people think, they should test all men since they spread it unknowingly. I will not have kids because I know that if I have a girl, she will have a 90% chance of getting it and she will suffer like the rest of us so sadly I would not be so cruel as to bring somone into this diseased world.

I'm sorry you are going through this but honestly I wouldn't even THINK of having a baby with a man like this. First off, he has 5 kids already. Wow, that's a lot of child support. Maybe he's acting this way because he doesn't want kids right now. It seems you are pushing this way too hard. A child should be conceived and brought up in a home that is stable. Yours is far from that and it would be completely unfair to subject a child to that.

They ended up allowing it to go to trial, and she won, but not for the reasons you would think. It is legal to fire her due to their religious exemption from many federal laws. But what she claimed (and i think you could claim this as well) is that they treated her differently than others (men). She was in the legal battle for over a year and it cost tons, but the school ended up paying fornit.

It's never easy but can be done. If Ur in an abussive relationship get out ASAP!! 1st for Ur safety, 2- for Ur babies safety. It is unfair & unhealthy for U & Ur child. Ur husband/boyfriend cannot take Ur child away fr U (whether U work or not). U have to be an unfit mother by being very neglectful or by using drugs. U don't necessarily need an atty, call the court they can help (there usually is a court clinic that works w people).

So im currently going through a divorce. Its no where close to being over with. I just found out im 9wks 5day pregnant by my bf. Im so nervous to tell my lawyer and don't know why?! Anyone know what could happen? Someone said legally my husband is considered the dad but i know dang well he isnt.

Evidently he don't give a **** about you, but more so about your child he can kick you out pregnant. That is beyond crazy. I would just leave if I were you. The baby's not here yet soit would be best and easier to do it now if you are absolutely sure on that's what you want to do. Good luck hunny! I hope everything works out.

Divorce laws vary from state to state, however with the help of a lawyer, you should get 1/2 of all marital property. Currently, spousal support is not often given.

Believers in a literal and eternal interpretation of the Quran seem to have only one place to go with this verse, which basically says that Muslim men can own sex slaves. Moreover, according to Islamic or Sharia law, a woman has no right to divorce, as only a man does, a right he may freely exercise in some Muslim areas merely by saying the word talaq—"I divorce you"—three times. A man can then proceed to marry another woman and another after that by doing the same thing.

Also I just want to sat, do you deserve to be blackmailed with divorce? Does baby need to see that? A husband should always take his wife first. After all a wedding vow sayss ti take as his own family. He is leaving their family to make one with you. And it sounds like he is choosing to not obey a vow he himself made and also to keep you in his control. Personally the first time my husband turned on me to listen to his family I was done.

Sam, you make some great points. Yes, it's true that women file for divorce more than men. I think it's b/c men and women have different expectations of marriage. Also, men will take longer to file for divorce so women have to do it. It's not that the men don't want the divorce, some men just don't want to be bothered with the process of a divorce. Maybe men see it as a big failure while women just want to move on with their life?

I just wanted to point out that if your circumstances led to divorce, you have the potential, with the right divorce lawyer, to still depend on his salary. Do you think he would be open to counseling? You may be surprised to find out he might be willing to try it; you said he generally does whatever he's asked to do as far as taking care of his family. He may be open to doing this for the marriage as well.

m still legally married to someone else and he refusing to file for divorce. I served him paper two years ago but signed them to late. SHOULD I tell him about the baby in hopes that he will then file for divorce. Or just let him discover my growing baby.

I want to get kids input about moving to NC so we can both parent them. Am I being unfair to want to ask their input on moving. They are 8 and 10 yrs old.

long story short I have decided to go through with a LONG needed divorce n need to know how to completely keep him away n get a divorce because he is crzy n said he will tk my bby n I will NEVER see it again.How do I have my bby without having to give it his families name or have him on the birth certificate.It sounds harsh but if u knew his bkground u would understand.

I dunno, I think guys get took on this alot and the laws need to be changed to fit todays world. I think if your wanting a divorce, the thing that needs to be done is someone needs to file. I do not think you can fight it anymore and I do not think the courts care who is cheating. Look up the laws in your state. I am not judging you, but I feel sorry for some of these dads that have no say in their futures anymore.

You may be able to file but not go to court until after baby is here. In divorce papers they will set up child support, visitation, medical support for baby etc. but do yourself a favor and when they set child support immediately go to your child support office and have all checks go through state that way he and you is protected.

I normal dont come here and talk about my problems but i just dont have any one els to tell to so i figured maybe u guys can give me advice so my boyfriend wants sex but i dont want any i dont even want to be toughed down there and he gets mad at me he sais his not but he is im 19w3d and just dosent seem to understand wat im going through he just couses he now stops him self because iv told him not to say bad words but every time i offer him or asking something that be easyer for him he he come

I know abortion is a hot button issue on these forums, but I just have to say that this is one of the reasons that I'm against it.

I've asked him a number of times to leave but he doesn't want to. What am I supposed to do?

My husband & I have been married for 23 yrs & have a 16 yr-old daughter. Through all the years, I've had an issue with his interest in porn and the fact that he's overly "friendly" to other woman. He admits that he has boundary issues and says he'll work on it. We've stayed together through his affair 11 yrs ago, charges for sexual assault 6 yrs ago, sexting in the last few months and now 2 claims of sexual harassment yesterday.

You have to be very careful in Virginia....being as it's a commonwealth state. VA rules/laws can differ dramatically from those of regular states. VA has been notorious for favoring the mother regardless of the situation. You need to check out (remove the spaces) www. divorcesource . com They're are very knowledgeable people on there. You can also look into the official code of virginia for laws governing child custody and divorce/child support etc.

Seems like he needs to man up and be supportive. Get it to him that he needs to do what's right for your family. There's a whole lot to love then just sex. Make him be mature about it all.

ll be ok but if she starts misbehaving as my father in law calls it, its going to really **** off me, not to mention my sister in laws, my mother in law probably won't care as much since she moved on. But this could be really bad and I have not sent her an official invitation but when I found out I was pregnant I did stupidly not thinking invited her not realizing how awkward this could turn out. So do I make something up? Go through with it?

I'll explain a little more. She is 24, I am almost 30. She told me she was ready to settle down and have kids. We live in a small town. She is now bored and wants to have hobbies that are not here. She wanted a divorce. We talked and decided on counseling. Befeore we could get there, I received info and confirmed some of her other activities which involve onther person. I'm not going to spell it out, I think you know what I mean.

They are changing the laws in India, but as Brice said, laws won't stop the lawless. Until the men start showing respect for women, this will continue to happen; laws can't force that respect.

So I have a question. My husband of five years stalked someone before he met me (which is also my sister in laws sister) I did not think much of it as this person (Stepnine) Has moved to another state but now she is back in town and I think staying. I asked my husband not to hang out at his brothers house as that may be where she is spending some time he kinda agreed telling me that he would walk out if she showed up-I don't believe he would.

Hello. I'm still in a state of confusion, shock, panic, sadness, etc. I was diagnosed yesterday with herpes. I'm in a full blown ob. I was married for 14 years and during that time he was the only man I had ever had sex of any form with. I was a virgin prior to him. After we divorced last year I met a man and we started being intimate at the end of the summer. Yesterday I went to the dr and found out I have herpes. Not sure if it's HSV-1 or HSV-2.

^^^Yes, it's til death do you part, but there are exceptions. You can't tell anyone they have no choice but to stay lol. That's ultimately up to her. She doesn't need to feel guilted into staying. But I agree, like I said before, unless he's doing something harmful to you, I'd work on it and see how things are once baby comes. Men don't know how to act sometimes when their women are pregnant.

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