Divorce advice in california
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I just went through this in WI. I had filled papers last February for a divorce. He and his lawyer dragged it out. In December I found out I was pregnant with my boyfriends that lived with me. My judge ordered a guardian ad lietam and all three of us had to testify at the trial to who the father of the child was. However the judge could have ordered a DNA test to be done because the child was presumed my ex husband's by law.
I may sound crazy by venting on here but I've been with my husband since I was 18 I am now 29 and I'm expecting our 5th child and I'm so ready for a divorce I feel like I hate him now he's so mean to me he's 40 and he's like a grumpy old man. I'm overly confident that I can take care of my children on my own and be much happier doing it. The state of California won't let me surve him with papers until I have the baby but I'm ready now.
So am i. He'll get in my face and yell and make me feel like im worthless but he never hit me hard.
Thanks everyone for the advice. We live in Wisconsin. We've been married 23 years with lots of up and downs. He is also a control freak and will try to intimidate me. Tonight he told me that I stepped out of bounds he would drop me from his open enrollment for group
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Does anyone know of any llmds in southern california (torrance, san pedro, long beach, irvine) areas or any llmds near there? Any advice on how to look for one?
Yesterday I had one margarita and I was drunk! My friend was looking at me because usually it takes a couple drinks to get tipsy and later I had a horrible headache that motrin did not help. I guess I better stay away from alcohol until I know whats going on with my body.
If your still newly weds its EXTREMELY hard , baby or not. I don't know why but it seems once your married everything just becomes a fight. I went threw it with my husband. Still am kinda. We have our fights. Maybe marriage and a baby so fast scares him and he don't know how to act. If you want a divorce I would suggest talking with him in a public place so he can't get crazy or stupid with you. Tall with each other and see what's causing y'all to feel that way.
Six months ago, I told him that I wanted a divorce, and he told me that he would do anything to keep our marriage intact, so we went to counseling. The verbal abuse stopped, but the control didn't. I have 2 daughters, one is a teenager and one is in her early 20s, and they both live with us. He is also very controlling with them. Three weeks ago, I told him that I could no longer try to work on our marriage, that I didn't love him like a husband anymore, and that I wanted a divorce.
Heey im 17 i live in California my bf is 21 and he wants me to put his last name but since im a minor idk if i could do that people told me that u could name your baby anything but i beed advice pls comment thank you
45 days prior to me returning to the states at the end of the contract she filed for divorce and never even talked with me about it. I did not know until paperwork was in hand 2 weeks after it was filed in the court.
I returned to the states and I am living apart from the family.
There was no communication for over 4 weeks all went through attorneys while I stood with my jaw on the ground wondering what happened.
I have been in your shoes. I had and 11 month old and we just found out our second was on the way. We constantly argued about his drinking. One night, I got a phone call that he had been caught driving drunk. I had to go bail him out the next morning and he had his eureka moment when I looked him in the eye outside the jail.
I swear I wanted a divorce every other Tuesday. Just hang in there, something is going to happen that will trigger a relaunch (so to speak) in your relationship. Just like LoriBee said starting from ground zero will make a world of difference. You'll soon begin to remember what is was that made you want to marry him in the first. Marriage will NEVER be perfect, but it can be 1000% worth it. One key thing to remember is that men are stupid & we aren't, lol.
Best thing to do would be call the pediatricians in your area, see if they will do it in hospital you are delivering at or if you have to wait, and ask them how much. Also if you go into the offices ask some of the parents sitting around with boys or the nurses who they used. Ask at your obgyn too. A lot of obgyns see their patients after circumcisions have been done on their kids and so the nurses there will hear horror stories if there are any.
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