Glad avis is here to help you.. I just wanted to tell you that I did take a muscle relax, called
zanaflex, and this helped me sooo much...Hot baths at night, heating pads on my legs for RLS, or you can wrap them in ace bandages...immodium, is also a great help...LOTS, or fluids...
also I take it your wife knows? She can be of great support to you...If she doesn't understand are maybe wants to get on here, we can also try and help her through this..